Remarried Ex-Wife still keeps tabs on me....why?

Why are you all held in thrall by F%%BOOK?! I never signed up, never will. F$$$ it. My life is miles better WITHOUT F-BOOK.

Late at night a big old house gets lonely

I guess every form of refuge has its price

And it breaks her heart to think her love is only

Given to a man with hands as cold as ice

Lol I still have some limited social interaction with my ex due to 3 adultish kids. Despite her leaving me 6yr ago, she still will do some stalking. She's looked up my results in races and sent comments. Or sent wistful messages. I generally ignore the contact and don't reply. Or send a generic polite quick response.

It's probably not that uncommon for people who are chronically dissatisfied to romanticize the past or 'what could have been'

I'm now so thankful that my ex left. I was miserable. She did me a huge (but expensive) favor. I wouldn't change a thing

Matters. She thinks you're going to accidental reveal/tip off some previously hidden assets or she's just bored and knows she can plant a little stake in your brain and get some free rent.

Who cares what your ex feels or thinks? You moved on. That means you shouldn't even be asking this question. Let whatever happens to her, happen to her. You shouldn't even muster up 1 brain cell for her. Even if you were single and not remarried, the same advice would apply.

I think we need pics of both women (ex wife, new wife) so we can make judgement calls based on that alone.

Well played my friend.

I'm guessing either your wife is bored or she's unhappy.

Either way, the best revenge is to pay no mind and move on. Sounds like you are in a much better place and in actuality, she did you a favor by leaving you.

The better question for you wrote:

Why do you care that she cares? You have a wife and daughter, let it go. There could be many reasons she follows you, who cares. The fact that you do is the real problem.

This is the best response. You've moved on and are apparently happy. I promise you that no good will come from thinking about this, posting about this, discussing this with anyone. Grow up and move on. Stop posting about this on a running website to strangers. If I were your current wife Id find this fishy.

Well probably she realizes that she made a mistake and she knows she f.. up. She didn’t find what she was looking with the other guy. She is a sore loser bro. Good for you move on and tell the new wife what she is doing and a I hope she can cope with it.

This is why .. wrote:

There's A Light wrote:

Lately, I've noticed some weird stuff with my ex-wife. Visiting my LinkedIn profile every other month. Commenting on things I commented on via mutual friends posts on Facebook. An old co-worker of mine saw her last week and she asked what I've been up to (which is BS because she can easily just google my name basically know everything).

So my question is, why does my wife give a crap what I'm up to after she wrecked our marriage and left me for another guy? Why now after 5 years? I've moved on and gotten over everything, so why can't she?

She is stalking you.

The best thing you can do is to stay far away from her, and completely ignore here.

Yeah, it only becomes a problem when she shows up at your house some day.

Living well is the best revenge. Cheers!

There's A Light wrote:

So my question is, why does my wife give a crap what I'm up to after she wrecked our marriage and left me for another guy? Why now after 5 years? I've moved on and gotten over everything, so why can't she?

Ask the question to her new husband.

All your preface is irrelevant...you did mention some measure of brevity ( thus the selection quoted)

Because I want to see people, and I want to see life. Driving in your car, oh, please don't drop me home. Because it's not my home, it's their home, and I'm welcome no more. And if a double-decker bus, crashes into us, to die by your side, is such a heavenly way to die. And if a ten-ton truck, kills the both of us, to die by your side, well, the pleasure, the privilege is mine.

I don't know who to call a loser here, you make it difficult.

Her for keeping tabs on you or you for caring if she does. Flip a coin?

There's A Light wrote:

They ended up getting married about a year or two later.

She sounds like a b_itch honestly. Cheating and getting re-married that quickly? She's the typical self-involved / controlling type, hence why she's checking on you. She still thinks she's entitled to your happiness or your life, or whatever and probably thinks you are still waiting for her if things don't go well. You having a new wife screwed with her ego.

Forget about her. Be done with her and move on. Be glad you got out of this relationship.

Bold wrote:

There's A Light wrote:

So my question is, why does my wife give a crap what I'm up to after she wrecked our marriage and left me for another guy? Why now after 5 years? I've moved on and gotten over everything, so why can't she?

Ask the question to her new husband.

All your preface is irrelevant...you did mention some measure of brevity ( thus the selection quoted)

+1

Additionally...it seems that the OP is more troubled by the behavior than it's worth...he hasn't "moved on" or whatever catch phrase one chooses to use. Wallowing in depression and self-doubt, etc. is useless, except to make one's situation more doleful, and to perpetuate the wallowing.

Move on, man, tell her to stop, and bring it to the new husband's attention if it doesn't stop.

Your ex is a cheater. There are some people out their who cannot be in committed relationships. They are addicted to the excitement that comes with fooling around. They cannot deal with the hard work and sacrifice it takes to stay in a relationship. They talk all the time about their "needs", but are really just making excuses for their inability to make compromises and give as much as they receive. So, after a few years in a relationship, they start looking around again. Your ex is probably thinking that getting back together with you would be an easy out for her current relationship. It is probably more fantasy than something she would actually act on. But if she cannot find someone to cheat with, she will fantasize about getting back with you. It makes her feel less like someone who is a chronic cheater and more like someone who just made a mistake.

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I must admit I sometimes look at my ex's FB profile only to confirm that his wife is really plain. Normally I wouldn't get fun out of this, but he dumped me repeatedly, informing me that he wanted a "tall, busty, good looking girlfriend". His wife is neither, she is very plain and has a problem with baldness and a rather unpleasant voice, but she must be nice to have stayed with him for so long. He also liked to tell anyone who couldn't avoid listening how successful he was going to be. He isn't, particularly. He probably doesn't interview well with employers that are looking for actual knowledge.

That ex also failed to enter me for a championship race I had qualified for by medalling in a regional championship, telling me that I was too old at the age of 23 (when there was no age limit) as he was in charge of college entries. He did other not so nice stuff too but years later he kept trying to get in touch with me and I was icily polite and made it clear I wasn't interested.

I do still occasionally look at his FB profile and his LinkedIn though, as its clear he hasn't really lived up to his own hype. It amuses me. I doubt your ex wife is interested in you, but she might get amusement out of looking online occasionally if you were an ***e. Which is quite possible if you are conceited enough to assume she does it because she is unhappy.