Addy - Here is my concession to you - I see that you and I are in agreement with the fact that people need to take responsibility for their actions.
However, I did not make any rude comments to marython. Everything I said was true and to the point. And, even if you think my directness with marython was rude, I never made any comments whatsoever about the speedos - go back and look. I had no issue with that. I did not comment on the size of anyone's thighs - now that would be rude. If I were a woman I would probably not like wearing those things either, unless of course I had a rockin' bod and didn't mind showing it off, but I'm sure that even for some of those women who look great in those things, they still might have problems with showing so much (whether they are reserved, religious, or whatever). Personally (and I'm not a pig as marython called someone else) I like looking at the women who wear those things. Since I am a runner, I tend to be more attracted to the thin and fit woman rather than someone who is not thin and fit, and those little uniforms show off that form quite well. I am a heterosexual man after all, and I give no apologies for that. Also, in my college days, it was quite common to hear the women talk about how they liked to see so and so run with his shirt off or to make comments about some guy's ass. It's certainly not all guys who do this. In fact, it is less appropriate if a guy does it than if a woman does it. We had a guy on the track team (400 meter guy) who had the nickname (Elephant Man). Some of the women on the team bothered him unmercifully to let them see it. Three of them even told him they would strip naked for him if he would show it to them. I gained a ton of respect for him when he said "no way".
So, criticize me if you like, but make sure you are criticizing me for something I wrote.