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Love Plus Work
Sigmund Freud said, “Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness.” As the father of psychoanalysis he was able to set the groundwork and state many fundament ideas used in today’s field of psychology. Freud’s analysis regarding love and work is accurate because a balance of good and bad in life leads to true happiness through man’s ability to compare the two.
Love is considered the ultimate form of happiness but if man only knows love he will not realize its true bliss. For example, if a parent spoils their child, the child will never know the value of what they have and what work or pain went into acquiring what they have. In life, humans need love to feel happiness and contentment. However, this need developed because of mans knowledge of pain and hard-work. Thus, to be happy human’s need to know what it is to be unhappy.
In the same respect as knowing too much love, knowing too much work or pain prevents man from realizing good from bad. If all people felt or knew was struggle, then how would they know that it was bad? Without the good and happy things in life to compare it too, hard-work and pain might actually be considered good because it’s all they know. Therefore, having love with the work helps man see the contrast, and helps him understand the definition or essence of happiness.
In contrast to too much love or work, God created a balance in every aspect of man’s life. This balance is paramount to man’s happiness. It’s known that too much knowledge is painful, but too much ignorance is also detrimental. The balance of knowing both love and work helps humans appreciate things like love and respect things like work. Basically balance is required for survival. Too much laziness leads to man’s downfall, but so does too much hard-work because they will wear out faster.
Freud’s formula for happiness is a basic principle of life. It describes the necessary balance needed in every man’s existence. Knowing both love and hard-work and, more importantly, knowing the difference between the two, is what allows humans to recognize happiness from unhappiness. Thus perfection and utopia could never exist unless they allowed some pain or work.