Advice from a female-- Similar freshman year dating experience, but the guy was in the military/cheating. Once you realize that this girl doesn't care for you in the way you thought she did, it will get a lot easier. You have to think as if she didn't deserve you to begin with. You really cared for her and she blew it. You should deserve better. Luckily, you are at college. Realize that there is a lot of ways for you to distract yourself from the situation. If you have serious problems with checking/being on your phone, then download tinder. But promise yourself that you won't become serious with the app. Since it is a joke. If there comes a day where you're really sad and missing her, make an appointment at counseling services. I know you might think its embarrassing but you do pay for it in your tuition and it will help you. Overall, she will text you. At some point. All girls are different so can't say when it'll happen. But she will realize she messed up!! Let your guy friends/ teammates know whats up so they can help distract you. This is a common thing so they will know the struggle. If they are D bags, go to the girls. This situation does happen the other way around as well. Hope this helps!