If you get mad at boss/mgmt at your job and quit, how do you take the high road &resist the temptation to say bad things on the

How has this happened to you many times? Perhaps you have a part in this?

It’s possible for sure, but this is about the typical worker trying to navigate and make career moves to move up, since it is almost never a straight line journey to being at the top

every single job I’ve had i left on “good terms”… just fyi

For me It’s more about anger management, and how to control frustrations

I do it by exercising self control. As we tell children, you don't always have to do what you feel like doing--in fact sometimes it's wrong to do what you feel like doing. In general it becomes easier if we practice self denial in other areas (fasting from food or something else, praying when we don't feel like it, etc.).

If this is a serious question, I would say that I don't burn bridges behind me for the same reason I don't ram a car if a person cuts me off in traffic--it's an improper response. The only time I've ever witnessed someone freak out upon leaving work was when a woman in a former office was fired, cleared her desk off with her arm and yelled stuff on the way out. I know it must have been a tough situation for her, but here actions did the opposite of her intent. The only person it hurt was her (made her look out of control and cartoonish, surely ruined her reference from the job, etc.).

Do an inventory on your experience there. First write out all the negative things you were subjected to. Then write out your part in those events. Share your list with a few best friends and get their sympathy, empathy, and maybe even judgement/perspective. Don't start cultivating a victim mentality.

If you're a real man, you wouldn't care and would speak your mind directly to them. Being fake to the person, gossiping behind people's backs, micro-aggressing is for weak people and losers. Winners handle things truthfully, demand accountability and do things directly, not indirectly.

If this has happened 2 or more times to you, then the problem is you.

No. The typical worker doesn’t have many instances of getting fed up with their manager and quitting and blasting them online.

“i’ve struggled with this over the years. I always took the highroad, even if they didn’t deserve it then sometimes on Nextdoor, I would complain but worry about whether they could figure out it was me complaining on Nextdoor, depending on the size of the company”

Hey lame troll, I think you meant GlassDoor.

Yes, I meant Glassdoor

Your psychologist and general medicine doctor will tell you, all advice on this thread so far will lead to ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, obesity, insomnia, cancer and substance abuse. Strap on flamethrower, so to say and go scorched earth. Let it out! Live on 70 cents on the dollar so you may have F U money.