Is there any chance that this was inadvertent? Or is she trying to subtly send me a message?
I feel like liking a HBD post is pretty much automatic and if you don't it's on purpose. But I also don't want to read too much into it if she just somehow didn't see my comment or something.
Wished the girl I like a happy birthday on facebook. My comment was the ONLY one she didn't "like" or "heart"
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You are embarrassing yourself.
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StevePrefonDead wrote:
You are embarrassing yourself.
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Al37 wrote:
Is there any chance that this was inadvertent? Or is she trying to subtly send me a message?
I feel like liking a HBD post is pretty much automatic and if you don't it's on purpose. But I also don't want to read too much into it if she just somehow didn't see my comment or something.
No.
Yes, except remove the word “subtly”.
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Sorry pal, you lost on this one. It’s best to move on.
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BLM!! wrote:
Sorry pal, you lost on this one. It’s best to move on.
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Did you post the comment a day or two late?
If not, then she thinks you're a big nerd. Block her immediately to flex your alpha status and that you don't need her. -
Yep, been there man. It sucks.
She is not subtly sending you a hint. She is sending you a hint. She probably recognizes that you're in to her and thinks you're "creepy" or "weird" or (insert another term that just means she's not attracted).
Situations like these are where you need to play the long game. What I mean by that is that you need to keep working on yourself and improving to be a better person. Go out, find hobbies, pursue those hobbies, treat people well, stay fit, and be honest with yourself. You will develop into a confident and interesting person who isn't overbearing or egotistical. Stop focusing on girls; if you build it (yourself), they will come. This method may show results while you're in high school because girls may realize that you're cool and start to give you attention. This may show results in college. It may show results after college. But it'll happen.
The bright side that if she's doing this, she's not really that great of a person. -
Ok maybe I shouldn't have done this but I was feeling a little aggressive about this so I posted a second comment like "I said happy birthday" in response to my first comment. Nothing yet, but I'll see what happens. I figure if she gets mad it doesn't matter because she was already blowing me off but if she likes my initiative it could be a good thing. Can't hurt, might help kind of thing.
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Dude... That is a huge beta move. Other people who will see that comment will think you're a beta who can't take rejection. I suggest that you delete both comments and block her. Be a Chad.
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Work out your right hand tonight. That'll help you get over it.
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Al37 wrote:
Ok maybe I shouldn't have done this but I was feeling a little aggressive about this so I posted a second comment like "I said happy birthday" in response to my first comment. Nothing yet, but I'll see what happens. I figure if she gets mad it doesn't matter because she was already blowing me off but if she likes my initiative it could be a good thing. Can't hurt, might help kind of thing.
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Al37 wrote:
Ok maybe I shouldn't have done this but I was feeling a little aggressive about this so I posted a second comment like "I said happy birthday" in response to my first comment. Nothing yet, but I'll see what happens. I figure if she gets mad it doesn't matter because she was already blowing me off but if she likes my initiative it could be a good thing. Can't hurt, might help kind of thing.
I've been forced to give this advice far too much as of late, but you need to snort cocaine off a whore's ass until you regain your self respect. -
Hold the L
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The problem is you are still thinking about it. You need to gain some more self esteem/respect/confidence so you will not care about others' approval or lack thereof. Be okay with rejection. Know yourself and be confident enough to say or think, "it is their problem/personality that is the issue, not mine."
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Liking every post but yours HAS to be intentional.
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High School Loser Who Improved wrote:
Yep, been there man. It sucks.
She is not subtly sending you a hint. She is sending you a hint. She probably recognizes that you're in to her and thinks you're "creepy" or "weird" or (insert another term that just means she's not attracted).
Situations like these are where you need to play the long game. What I mean by that is that you need to keep working on yourself and improving to be a better person. Go out, find hobbies, pursue those hobbies, treat people well, stay fit, and be honest with yourself. You will develop into a confident and interesting person who isn't overbearing or egotistical. Stop focusing on girls; if you build it (yourself), they will come. This method may show results while you're in high school because girls may realize that you're cool and start to give you attention. This may show results in college. It may show results after college. But it'll happen.
The bright side that if she's doing this, she's not really that great of a person.
Wow. Great post. All true. -
Al37 wrote:
Ok maybe I shouldn't have done this but I was feeling a little aggressive about this so I posted a second comment like "I said happy birthday" in response to my first comment. Nothing yet, but I'll see what happens. I figure if she gets mad it doesn't matter because she was already blowing me off but if she likes my initiative it could be a good thing. Can't hurt, might help kind of thing.
Jeez, I can see why she's creeped out by you... -
What happened to “unconditional” ? I always thought that when you wish anything to anyone it’s because you mean it, not because you want to be noticed or acknowledged. Give your head a shake and move on, she does not owe you anything.
