I'm an infectious disease specialist, so only deal with joints when they are infected (a reason not to get the arthrogram...), but I think you and your doc are probably both partially correct. With older scanners (1.5 Tesla) arthrogram has clearly been shown to be superior, but the new scanners (3 T and higher) have narrowed the gap. Have they closed it? Not sure anyone knows, since the studies are sort of cumbersome- you need to get both scans, then go look in the hip (either with a full open procedure, or with an arthroscope) as the "gold standard."
Below is an abstract describing one small such study, which would seem to support your doc. Older studies back you up more.
Radiology. 2006 Feb;238(2):706-11.
Evaluation of the acetabular labrum at 3.0-T MR imaging compared with 1.5-T MR arthrography: preliminary experience.
Sundberg TP, Toomayan GA, Major NM.
Department of Radiology, Duke University Medical Center, Box 3808, Durham, NC 27710, USA.
Institutional review board approval and informed consent were obtained for this HIPAA-compliant study. The purpose of this study was to prospectively compare imaging of the acetabular labrum with 3.0-T magnetic resonance (MR) imaging and 1.5-T MR arthrography. Eight patients (four male, four female; mean age, 38 years) with hip pain suspicious for labral disease were examined at both MR arthrography and MR imaging. Presence of labral lesions, paralabral cysts, articular cartilage lesions, subchondral cysts, osteophytes, and synovial herniation pits was recorded. There was arthroscopic correlation of findings in five patients. MR imaging depicted four surgically confirmed labral tears that were identified at MR arthrography, as well as one that was not visualized at MR arthrography. MR imaging helped identify all other pathologic conditions that were diagnosed at MR arthrography and helped identify one additional surgically confirmed focal articular cartilage lesion. These results provide encouraging support for evaluation with 3.0-T MR imaging over 1.5-T MR arthrography. (c) RSNA, 2006
PMID: 16436825 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]