Something weirder is I'm dating the ex of my dead friend, but she wanted me and is ok with it.
Something weirder is I'm dating the ex of my dead friend, but she wanted me and is ok with it.
Not strange. Some names are common.
A (Hetero male) Playa prolly register a few “Deb”s along the way.
And perhaps not entirely a coincidence.
One big upside is you won’t commit the nut-crushing sin of calling your GF by your Ex’s name.
My 3 takes:
1) There are a couple of books (I never read) you may be interested in: The Laws of Attraction
2) Two women who begin dwelling in close proximity (say the same room) for about 45-90 days will begin to ovulate at the same time; their periods will align. Men sometimes get the same symptoms as their pregnant significant others- whether cravings or sicknesses. I spoke with a student last month and she told me as she was having a bad dream about a woman who appeared on her bed with a bloody face by COINCIDENCE her mom was having sleep talking from a bad experience which the daughter heard at the same time. She told me her mom saw a bloody faced woman. Of course we are familiar with the placebo effect where two study groups of sick patients are treated; one with the actual medicine and the other group with the fake inert substance and studies have shown that the recovery rates are very similar between both.
Hence - the mind plays a very real role in the interactions upon the human body. We know this; stress hastens disease. More importantly we cannot continue to just think of ourselves as human beings with souls going through this life with coincidences. We are spirits interacting with "bodies" and we communicate with other people even without human dialogue.
3) Lastly, the names may just be a coincidence as one poster pointed out or perhaps you are receiving an invitation from the SPIRIT to look more deeply at the relationship dynamics. I had 3 consecutive relationships with all three names "J_ _ _ _ _ _ _ ...__" . The 1st had it as a middle name, the 2nd as a middle name, and the 3rd it was her 1st name. Strikingly - they had similitudes of the same type of challenge. So for me the SPIRIT was allowing me to undestand soul ties, familiar spirits, and generational recurrences. Sometimes the spirit wants you to be aware of the coincidence in the physical to draw your attention to a commonality in the spirit which is taking place. Something may need to be known, addressed, avoided, embraced, changed. or redirected.
Pray on it and ask to see if it is nothing more than coincidence or if you are being revealed to about something significant you need.
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OP that's nothing. I've dated chicks with the same last name as mine.
Guest commenter wrote:
... SPIRIT was allowing me to undestand soul ties, ...
Pray on it and ask to see if it is nothing more than coincidence or if you are being revealed to about something significant....
Thank you and BLESSINGS for sharing your experience, insight, and Gift.
Resident of Arkansas wrote:
OP that's nothing. I've dated chicks with the same last name as mine.
This is common in Trailer-Parkansas.
This could open up a vast variety of legal opportunist!!
nipchoge wrote:
Something weirder is I'm dating the ex of my dead friend, but she wanted me and is ok with it.
Something even weirder than that is I'm dating the dead friend of my ex.
Guest commenter wrote:
My 3 takes:
1) There are a couple of books (I never read) you may be interested in: The Laws of Attraction
2) Two women who begin dwelling in close proximity (say the same room) for about 45-90 days will begin to ovulate at the same time; their periods will align. Men sometimes get the same symptoms as their pregnant significant others- whether cravings or sicknesses. I spoke with a student last month and she told me as she was having a bad dream about a woman who appeared on her bed with a bloody face by COINCIDENCE her mom was having sleep talking from a bad experience which the daughter heard at the same time. She told me her mom saw a bloody faced woman. Of course we are familiar with the placebo effect where two study groups of sick patients are treated; one with the actual medicine and the other group with the fake inert substance and studies have shown that the recovery rates are very similar between both.
Hence - the mind plays a very real role in the interactions upon the human body. We know this; stress hastens disease. More importantly we cannot continue to just think of ourselves as human beings with souls going through this life with coincidences. We are spirits interacting with "bodies" and we communicate with other people even without human dialogue.
3) Lastly, the names may just be a coincidence as one poster pointed out or perhaps you are receiving an invitation from the SPIRIT to look more deeply at the relationship dynamics. I had 3 consecutive relationships with all three names "J_ _ _ _ _ _ _ ...__" . The 1st had it as a middle name, the 2nd as a middle name, and the 3rd it was her 1st name. Strikingly - they had similitudes of the same type of challenge. So for me the SPIRIT was allowing me to undestand soul ties, familiar spirits, and generational recurrences. Sometimes the spirit wants you to be aware of the coincidence in the physical to draw your attention to a commonality in the spirit which is taking place. Something may need to be known, addressed, avoided, embraced, changed. or redirected.
Pray on it and ask to see if it is nothing more than coincidence or if you are being revealed to about something significant you need.
Oh how weird is this................I post by the handle Guest Commenter too! This is too weird to be a simple coincidence.
I had a very vivid yet unsettling dream last night, I have a feeling that you did too.
Isn't that weird?
IIRC Elmer Swanson, the longtime coach at Wesleyan (CT), married a woman whose father's name was . . . Elmer Swanson.
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That's the kind of situation where you keep Dr. Freud on speed dial.
Theres a guy named mick hannah and he met a woman named hannah. So yeah her name is now hannah hannah. Makes you realize that names mean little, and that if the relationship is good the rest of that kind of stuff quickly becomes an interesting side story.
You could inadvertently blurt out your ex’s name during sex and the current gf would be none the wiser
My mom and step-mom have the same birthday
Johnny Carson's first 3 wives were named Jody, Joanne, and Joanna. I took note of that.
What might be stranger: Your name is Aaron and your girlfriend's name is Erin. (Or Pat and Pat, Chris and Kris)
My best friend's name in high school was Ken Myers. My maternal grandfather's name was Ken Myers.
So, say your ex contacts you and wants to get back together--but you're (or your) torn over the decision. Do you dump new same name girl for old same name girl--or stick with new same name girl and reject the advances of old same name girl. What is the answer??? Obviously, the pick the one with the bigger tits, you nitwit. That's evolution in action.
Dumb and Dating wrote:
I dated a woman for 3 years and we were on our way to being engaged before her job brought her across the country. Now, a year or so later, i just got into a new relationship with someone who’s name is just a different spelling than my ex’s. Obviously I don’t care what people think about it, but is that weird? For example, I’m actively trying to avoid using the same nicknames for them but it’s pretty difficult.
old guy 73 wrote:
What might be stranger: Your name is Aaron and your girlfriend's name is Erin. (Or Pat and Pat, Chris and Kris)
Drove us crazy at the time, but now it's good for a laugh-- people trying to figure out genders of "Sandy and Tracy" (my given name is Alessandro, but have gone by Sandy most of my life).