Graduated with an advanced degree and about $80,000 in student loan debt in ‘99. Bought my first house in ‘01 for a little less than twice my annual salary. Moved into a new house that my then-girlfriend and bow-wife bought in ‘05 (for a little bit more than twice her annual salary) and rented my old house out for about my total carry cost. Sold my house in ‘06 for 75% more than I paid for it in ‘01, paid off my student loans and used the rest for an initial equity payment on a new house for my wife and myself for roughly twice our combined annual salary) in ‘07.
We did a little worse on my wife’s house when we finally sold it in ‘18. But we still made about money on it ultimately even though we negative cash flowed that house for a bit.
Won’t make much on our current home that we bought in ‘07 because that was the peak of the real estate market right before the recession, but I have enough equity in it to cover more than three years of retirement even right now.
It’s been tough at times to cover home expenses because of the recession and my wife leaving the work force to be a stay at home mom; but the wealth building power of home ownership has made being stretched thin at times well worth it as I sit here in the tail end of my 40s with my only debt being a mortgage that makes up about half of the total value of my home.