I keep being warned about post-nuptial shut off, but it doesn't make any logical sense to me?

Good trolling but there is something to your posts... speaks to how the massive disconnect between our society's thirst for equal gender rights and the reality that is women and men are completely different.

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Well this is why many Women lose their men.

This is why we have so many single ladies and single Old women.

All these women look terrible.

Their legs look like someone beat them with a Baseball bat.

If they had a husband, he'd buy her nice clothing to wear and she would be respected.

Think about all the terrible women in you family. They are probably divorced.

They have a duty.

The baby-boomer Grandparents are garbage too. They should be helping but they don't they gamble and waste their resources.

That's why people have started to put them in Old People Warehouses.

It's all just evil and sin, including a Women disrespecting her husband by not giving him sex.

Energy drain ... well maybe until She cheats on him or He cheats on her.

Become a Christian and live well.

John 3:16

Romans 10:9

Putting a question mark at the end turns a statement into a question.

You can do that?

Yes. You can do that.

Seemed like he was questioning himself to me.

That’s the question wrote:

Putting a question mark at the end turns a statement into a question.

You can do that?

Yes. You can do that.

Seemed like he was questioning himself to me.

It doesn't work that way. Yes, I can change certain statements into questions:

I ate an apple.

I ate an apple?

However, saying "I keep being warned about post-nuptial shut off, but it doesn't make any logical sense to me" cannot be turned into a question in the same sense that you are thinking. The statement he made already makes the point that it doesn't make logical sense to him. He isn't asking anything. We already know by the statement that it doesn't make "logical sense" to him, and he is wondering why. Adding the question mark doesn't clarify that he is wondering why; it just adds redundancy.

Count me as someone who is thankful for PNSO. My wife and I are early 40s with 3 kids under the age of 8. We are down to once a month, always within a day or two of when she ovulates, which is the only time of the month she wants any affection. Even on those rare times each month it is bland, boring sex. She either says "Don't expect anything exciting" or "Don't dawdle". Terrible.

As newlyweds we were twice a week. By year five were were once a week. After the first kid at year ten, any type of oral stopped. After the second kid we were once every two weeks. After the third kid we went to once a month and dropped all positions except for missionary.

I recently asked her why we just don't stop having sex completely and she said "It would be weird to not have sex". OK. Whatever.

The irony is that if we happen to miss her once a month "horny" period, she gets irritated.

...and yet she will be destroyed, crushed, heart-broken if/when you ditch her old, haggard, rejecting flat and flabby ass for a younger woman a few years from now. The older I get the more I realize just how stupid women are, and how poorly matched men and women are for long term relationships.

True, but we are also stupid for settling for it. I know it's just the way it is, but we also made a decision.

Yes we may settle for it during a time period. We settle for it, when first married for hobbies, then later for kids.

But she and he better recognize it quickly when the kids reach age 5 or 6. They better change the behavior because this is how Office Mate get pregnant. This is how spouses have b*stard babies with unattractive people that "listen to them".

I have one relative.

He has 6 kids and he fathers very few, if that.

His latest Knock-up was a married woman. She had him sign over his rights. That's right, her husband decided to raise the affair kid.

I'm just saying that Women get P# ssy Passes. They are given sympathy when divorced but they were abusive to their husbands by withholding - and what many don't know is that they occasionally are guilty of affairs themselves while Withholding.

Currently, we are getting it about 20 to 24 times per month.

Which is great.

I run at night time and see all these sad people, that are mostly likely divorced having car s@x.

And I have to see this with my own eyes.

crazy I tell you.

Whew, man reading this gave me anxiety. I sure hope you have a series of interesting hobbies as a healthy outlet. This type of future dynamic is what has been in the back of my mind through every relationship I've had, and I want to avoid it at all costs. As I get older I'm believing less and less in the institution of marriage just by observing those around me.

I'm amazed at couples who can remain happy together long-term. Most of the couples I've known who were together for more than 10 years, and would tell the truth, have sex maybe a few times per year. Truly.

It should never, ever surprise anyone when men and women cheat on each other; it's almost impossible not to. When it happens, partners should neither be surprised nor should they feel particularly betrayed, since in reality objective observers would easily find blame in preceding events.

If a person is physically active they may be still be interested sex. Once many women get married they have no use for exercise.

I think many women fake a lot of things in life. In fact someone with experience (a woman) said that in relationships men are stupid and women are evil. If you examine that you pretty much find that it is often true.

We do not know what the other person is thinking.

Haven't the years taught you that women are not interested in what we have as far as sexual tools?

They might want a good looking guy and even someone who is in shape but as far as the tools...they are not admirers. (There may be a few exceptions.)

The way I read it, the question mark adds uncertainty. But who knows. I get why you are saying, but, you should come sit in my 3rd year English class. A lot of people are using language, punctuation, non-capitalization etc. in unique ways to convey meaning, create imagery and maybe just being rebellious through non-conformity.

What I do know is only an as$hole comes onto letsrun and gets all twisted up about grammar and punctuation in a subject line.

Its OK to cheat if u ain't getting any.

I have a Theory=my wife likes sex

I have a Belief=my wife doesn't like to have it with me

I will soon have a Fact=I set up a secret camera to see if she is banging the Pool Boy

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Can you expand here? Interested in the foundations of your theory and your belief