What did you think when you first met your wife?

rojo wrote:

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

Rojo... this is just plain stupidity. Anal sex with a woman meaning someone's gay? He's having sex with a woman. A female. Only an idiot would say someone's gay because of that.

And I'm a gay man.

rojo wrote:

wineturtle wrote:

I can not believe people define their lives by having had anal sex or not.

Is this some sort of weirdly misguided male powertrip idea because they got a woman to submit to their will they are special or something?

Really freekin' odd antisocial group on here, from the hate and bitterness, misogyny, racist rants thru the anti-this and anti-thatness that pervades half the threads I wonder how our species has survived.

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

You do realize gay dudes are into oral as well? Does recieving one from a woman suggest you want a dude to do the same?

Met my wife in sixth grade dated on and off through school years but I alway knew she was my soul mate. After high school she was pregnant and we married We are still together 32 year's later. Being married isn't always easy both have to be willing to give.

Maybe its just me but even on a anonymous message board I would not discuss what me and my wife do behind closed doors.

Which wife?

PTO wrote:

After high school she was pregnant and we married We are still together 32 year's later.

I'm confused. Why did you use passive voice? Did somebody else knock her up? I feel like you would use active voice if it was your child...

PTO wrote:

Maybe its just me but even on a anonymous message board I would not discuss what me and my wife do behind closed doors.

Fair enough. But combined with what you wrote above, I kind of feel like this means nothing goes on "behind closed doors" between you and your wife. Or maybe wild orgies happen, hence why you aren't sure who is the father of your first child. I feel like I wouldn't put my money on anything in between. Either sexless marriage or swinger parties.

"She has nice boob meat."

uh............ wrote:

PTO wrote:

After high school she was pregnant and we married We are still together 32 year's later.

I'm confused. Why did you use passive voice? Did somebody else knock her up? I feel like you would use active voice if it was your child...

PTO wrote:

Maybe its just me but even on a anonymous message board I would not discuss what me and my wife do behind closed doors.

Fair enough. But combined with what you wrote above, I kind of feel like this means nothing goes on "behind closed doors" between you and your wife. Or maybe wild orgies happen, hence why you aren't sure who is the father of your first child. I feel like I wouldn't put my money on anything in between. Either sexless marriage or swinger parties.

POD. I almost spit coffee on the screen with the last paragraph. Bravo.

I texted her this morning and after texting her a bit yesterday she just told me she has a boyfriend so let's just end this thread now please :):):):)

Met my wife when she was 14 and I was 16, in high school. I guess when we first met I was just shocked that she didn't think I was a loser for running XC and listening to mopey bands like Brand New and The Get Up Kids. Pretty much made up my mind that we would get married about 12 months later, when we started dating.

And I guess because this is the way the thread has turned, we did do it in the butt a couple times about 3 years into our relationship. She is not a fan of it anymore, but she is still a phenomenal talent.

She has a nice big butt.

mellow seeds wrote:

rojo wrote:

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

You do realize gay dudes are into oral as well? Does recieving one from a woman suggest you want a dude to do the same?

Not hard to tell that for Rojo and the missus it's only missionary in the dark if that.

uh............ wrote:

PTO wrote:

After high school she was pregnant and we married We are still together 32 year's later.

I'm confused. Why did you use passive voice? Did somebody else knock her up? I feel like you would use active voice if it was your child...

PTO wrote:

Maybe its just me but even on a anonymous message board I would not discuss what me and my wife do behind closed doors.

Fair enough. But combined with what you wrote above, I kind of feel like this means nothing goes on "behind closed doors" between you and your wife. Or maybe wild orgies happen, hence why you aren't sure who is the father of your first child. I feel like I wouldn't put my money on anything in between. Either sexless marriage or swinger parties.

You have one part correct , the part about you being confused.

I am just amazed, after reading all the message boards, that anyone here is even married.

(except for me, of course... 33 years and counting...)

Anonymous....! wrote:

What did you first think when you saw the love of your life for the first time? What did you do?

Wife or love of your life -- which is it?

Bro - Mama wrote:

I am just amazed, after reading all the message boards, that anyone here is even married.

(except for me, of course... 33 years and counting...)

I'm amazed anyone here is capable of behaving civilly on a date much less successfully convincing someone to marry them. The thought of the latter makes my skin crawl.

I'm sitting here laughing out loud at my desk at the direction this thread has taken. Only on LR can a subject veer off path and get into anal sex, who is gay and doesn't know it and then have a gay guy correcting other posters.

It's sad yet hilarious at the same time.

I was confused as hell the first time I met my wife, mainly because I thought she was someone else. I wasn't sure if it was a joke. She was more attractive than the other girl, so I rolled with it. twenty-two years later, we are still best friends.

Although I normally do not kiss and tell, I guess I have to admit that while we have experimented with the whole anal thing, we both prefer to utilize the hundreds of positions that vaginal sex can offer. I can honestly say that I have never really understood the obsession with anal sex. It seems like it is way too intentional and it slows down the fun and ruins the mood. Of course that is just my opinion...

PTO wrote:

After high school she was pregnant and we married

You have to admit, you didn't specify who got her pregnant.

I'm in my 40s and still remember when I first met my wife. We were both barely 20 years old. And I thought, wow, she's cute. I'd like to get to know her. And we hit it off well and we've been happily married over 20 years now.

Word of advice. Just because you become infatuated with a girl you first met doesn't mean you'll have a great marriage. Infatuation or falling in love is merely the initial spark. The solid base for a relationship is not infatuation or even romantic or sexual chemistry. It's friendship, being able to laugh together and truly enjoy being together.

Recently, my wife and I had to take our family vacation separately. She took our teenage girls on a trip. And I took my teenage son on a trip. It was all because our teenagers have such complicated schedules. We have great kids and love spending time with them, but afterward both of us told each other, Yeah, I really enjoy traveling and spending time one on one with you more than anyone else.