OK, Yaboy,
I see these types of complaints here once in a while and I will give you the benefit of the doubt that the OP of each has been someone different and not you continually posting anti-coach vitriol. So, I will assume that you haven't read what I'm about to write although you apparently need to. Still, though, I put this thought out there several times and your generation doesn't seem to get this. Amazing that I see essentially this same thread so often and I'm only an occasional MB viewer. Here goes:
I am old. Your parents generation. I do run now and did a race this last weekend. However, at your age I was faster than now. My high school running 'career' (if you could call it that). Was actually the highlight of my running life in some ways inncluding PRs. I never met my HS track coach. Let me be clear and not beat around the bush:
I NEVER MET MY HIGH SCHOOL TRACK COACH.
I never once complained to anybody about someone I didn't respect 'forcing me' to do this, that, or the other. This was pre-internet but I never bitched to my running friends or the guy at Fleet Foot or the Runner's World letters to the editor or my parents... Or anyone about how 'my coach' sucks. This is because an individual cannot be 'my coach' unless I decide she is. The school district lacks the authority to make somebody 'your coach'. If everybody in the bounaries of the school disrtrict were forced to obey someone, you'd have a point. I would understand all the dissatisfaction from today's teenagerss (as far a coaching goes, anyway). However, the fact that you live within the district, are enrolled at the school, or your parents' outrageous property taxes fund some A-hole assistant football coach turned XC tyrant does not make you subject to her. Ignore the coach run by with middle finger held high. Or get into it and follow the program.
If the day comes that I can afford to and am fast enough to justify it (neither is likely but oh well) I could hire McMillan, Hudson, JD, maybe even Colorado Mark. At that point one of 2 things will happen. I will willingly, or at least grudgingly, obey and see what happens. OR, ditch 'em like Alan Webb. At no point will I feel stuck or trapped or 'forced'. Teenage runners of America, hear this:
YOU ARE NOT MY COACH UNLESS I SAY YOU ARE!!