The guy who initially wrote me responded to my email. His comments are worth mentioning:
"I appreciate the email. I have stopped going to the message forum because it seems like it is over run by HS kids just talking about "silly" stuff, but this topic moved me so much that I just felt like I needed to voice my opinion. I never expected a response. It was uplifting to actually know that you care enough (not that I didn't know that already because I have been going to your sight since it began) about our sport (and your readers) to respond to an ordinary follower.
But in reading your email, you mentioned that reading Ryan's blog "proved" that Ryan left Terrence and that Terrence "needed" him, but if that was the case, wouldn't you think Terrence would respond on the matter? His reaction to the "news" just doesn't seem like that of a person that was "dumped". I would think that if it wasn't at least a mutual decision, and Ryan actually chose to leave on his own, Terrence wouldn't mind commenting on the situation. By choosing not to comment almost brings to light that he is waiting for Ryan to get everything out on his own, and when the smoke clears, and the hysteria calms down, he will make peace with the situation (I tried to think of another word there but realized I use bad English...LOL).
Again, I want to express the gratitude for you responding, and also want to pass along that I was not the one that started the thread about Terrence being "dumped" by Ryan. That is just coincidence. "