NObama........................ wrote:
Here's a tip.
Why don't you be a man about it work it out with your wife. Just because you're bored with her (and she's bored with you to if she told you she'd kill her self) then YOU need to step up to the plate and try to bring something fun. If you look for her to make you happy you're SOL. Be a man grab you balls talk to your woman like a man tell her what you need ask her what she wants and then find a happy medium.
You are an example of the further pussification of America!
The shallowness of your intelligence on this topic is even below your usual simplistic limp brained, black and white thinking claptrap...
Bring something fun?
How about serious couples therapy, and serious couples education?
Secondly, a friend of mine is a very similar predicament; and his wife is acting off the charts like an unstable personality and an emotional lunatic. --You won't find a more "man up" guy than this; and yet the wife finds every way to attack him at any and every angle she can think of.
While he remains calm, positive, focused on the good of the children, positive co-parenting -- while the life has a WW3 personality crisis because he has stopped being a "European gentleman," and started owning his balls, asking for what he wants (basically speaking his truth to her) and she is responding like a child out of control with rage, in any and all manipulative attempts to get her unilateral power back.
He got them to couples counseling, with a great counselor, on the third visit she flew into a nuclear rage screaming at the therapist and raging and stormed out swearing to never return to therapy.
Then, when she's all raged out, exhausted, she comes crawling back to him wanting to be cozy, affectionate and make love.
--You are assuming this dudes wife is SANE.
Threats of suicide in a marriage are not solved by "spicing it up a little bit."
Recipe for FAILURE: Follow "NObama's" counsel.