from one pansy to another wrote:
You said it, not me.
college regrets wrote:...because I was too much of a pansy to go after her.
I know I said it. There's no question the only reason I stayed with the getting fat girl and didn't go after this hot one is because I was a pansy then. I dealt with it. After seeing her those years later, I finally manned up in my life and learned how to approach women and make decisions rather than fear them.