thank you wrote:
I am glad flagpole did not chime in with his "expertise."
You spoke too soon brother.
Actually though I don't have expertise in this area because I've never bought a car that I didn't think things through with so that I was displeased with the purchase less than 3 years later.
BUT, if I were suddenly in your situation, I would do what HRE said (with one exception). I'd sell that behemoth and take the $5000 you have extra and buy a smaller used car with that and JUST drive that -- insurance is less, NO car payment, and gas is less. If you're upside down on the SUV well, as Dave Ramsey says, just chalk that up to "stupid tax".
Regarding the price of gas though, let's say that gas went up to $5 a gallon from $3 a gallon (it's actually $3.45 here in Columbus, OH today). That's a $2 a gallon increase. My small car has a 12.8 gallon tank. This means that in this worse-case scenario I'd have to pay $25.60 more per tank of gas. In a more reasonable near-term scenario, going from $3 to $4 a gallon, that's just $12.80 more per tank of gas. If you're living on edge so much so that an extra $12.80 per fillup is causing you serious grief, then you need to re-examine your expenses.
I know -- you drive a million miles a week to and from work or FOR work or to visit your girlfriend or whatever. Move closer to work, make your work pay you more for the gas, get a different girlfriend, or see her less often, or make her visit you, or cut back on your beer purchases.
I find it hilarious (in a sad way) that people will bitch about gas going up 12 cents a gallon yet they will continue to pay $60 dollars a month OR MORE to a credit card company in finance charges because they don't pay their stinking credit card bill off each month -- a credit card that is filled with frivilous purchases.
Anyway, I advise to sell that car even though you are upside down on it, and go buy a decent used car for cash. Then, don't go buying a $25,000 new car again until you are a millionaire. Seriously.