[From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly]
I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans.
Work nights to pay
for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit
shoots.
But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck.
Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick,
26.2 miles in
marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2
miles in a
wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy
while swimming and
pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all
in the same
day.
Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him
on his back
mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S.
on a bike. Makes
taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?
And what has Rick done for his father? Not
much--except save his life.
This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years
ago, when Rick
was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth,
leaving him
brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs.
``He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;'' Dick
says doctors told
him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old.
``Put him in an
institution.''
But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way
Rick's eyes
followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they
took him to the
engineering department at Tufts University and asked
if there was
anything to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick
says he was
told.
`There's nothing going on in his brain.''
"Tell him a joke,'' Dick countered. They did. Rick
laughed. Turns out
a lot was going on in his brain.
Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control
the cursor by
touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was
finally able to
communicate.
First words? ``Go Bruins!'' And after a high school
classmate was
paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a
charity run for
him, Rick pecked out, ``Dad, I want to do that.''
Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described ``porker''
who never ran
more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five
miles? Still,
he tried.
``Then it was me who was handicapped,'' Dick says. ``I
was sore for two weeks.''
That day changed Rick's life. ``Dad,'' he typed,
``when we were
running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!''
And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became
obsessed with giving
Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into
such hard-belly
shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979
Boston Marathon.
``No way,'' Dick was told by a race official. The
Hoyts weren't quite
a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair
competitor. For a
few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field
and ran anyway,
then they found a way to get into the race officially:
In 1983 they
ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying
time for Boston
the following year.
Then somebody said, ``Hey, Dick, why not a
triathlon?''
How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't
ridden a bike since
he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a
triathlon? Still,
Dick tried.
Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four
grueling 15-hour
Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a
25-year-old stud
getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a
dinghy, don't you
think?
Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? ``No
way,'' he says.
Dick does it purely for ``the awesome feeling'' he
gets seeing Rick
with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride
together.
This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished
their 24th Boston
Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000
starters. Their
best time'? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35
minutes off the
world record, which, in case you don't keep track of
these things,
happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing
another man in a
wheelchair at the time.
``No question about it,'' Rick types. ``My dad is the
Father of the Century.''
And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two
years ago he had
a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that
one of his
arteries was 95% clogged. ``If you hadn't been in such
great shape,''
one doctor told him, ``you probably would've died 15
years ago.''
So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.
Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care)
and works in
Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living
in Holland,
Mass., always find ways to be together. They give
speeches around the
country and compete in some backbreaking race every
weekend, including
this Father's Day.
That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the
thing he really
wants to give him is a gift he can never buy.
``The thing I'd most like,'' Rick types, ``is that my
dad sit in the
chair and I push him once.''