Wife ruined our surprise pregnancy

trollism wrote:

Hooma wrote:

Sounds like your wife is a self-centered b!tch. She's grooming you to understand that she makes the decisions in the family. You have yourself a self-centered b!tch for a wife. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Yours has a greater chance of divorce than that because she is a self-centered b!tch. You might want to find out of the baby is really yours, and I'm not kidding.

Whether it was a troll post or not, this is the sort of response the OP was looking for when he wrote it.

Well done. Can probably delete this now.

Whether he was looking for this answer or not, it's the truth. A self-centered b!tch will hide the sausage with any guy if that's what she's in the mood for. At best she's just telling him that she makes the decisions in the family. She's a self-centered b!tch though for sure.

I see someone who is single in the next 5-10 years.

This is the way of the modern world. If a man treated a woman the way that women treat men, he'd be considered a scumbag. But it is absolutely acceptable for women to treat men poorly. The modern world is too cucked to demand actual equal treatment and women are used to simp "men" bending over backwards for them and taking their sh!t.

Best to just accept it and get used to it, because it isn't going to change.

Suspicious post. Ultrasounds are scheduled in advance — you couldn’t be unaware of when unless you refuse to be part of all the appointments; or you really are a troll.

Great reason to get out now.

Move to another cheaper city and start over.

She’s gonna be one of those fat stay at home porkers that doesn’t help with the bills. Housewife isn’t a job. And kids suck. I’m just happy for you this happened now. Please move along. I’d be pissed too.

Rule #1 all intelligent men learn is don't fvck with pregnant women. The pregnancy hormones impair their intellectual functions and make them dangerous. Crossing them will only result in an unpleasant experience for you.

Can't trust the beach already. Good luck for the next 18 years. Should be fun haha

unconvinced wrote:

Suspicious post. Ultrasounds are scheduled in advance — you couldn’t be unaware of when unless you refuse to be part of all the appointments; or you really are a troll.

Many doctors' offices are not allowing anyone else during ultrasounds for COVID.

Nonetheless, I have really enjoyed the responses. I needed a few grins.

Luv2Run wrote:

unconvinced wrote:

Suspicious post. Ultrasounds are scheduled in advance — you couldn’t be unaware of when unless you refuse to be part of all the appointments; or you really are a troll.

Many doctors' offices are not allowing anyone else during ultrasounds for COVID.

Nonetheless, I have really enjoyed the responses. I needed a few grins.

Any fatty women gonna chime in on this thread? Where are the balloon butt ladies with kids?

The good news is there will be much bigger things to resent her for in the future.

My parents didn't want to know my sex but the ultrasound made things abundantly clear.

Perhaps this was your case? In which case you should be a proud father.

OP, did you ask your wife if it was an accident? It’s entirely possible the baby moved around during the ultrasound, revealing the hot dog, or the tech caught it while they were trying to reposition to visualize something else. It happens. It stinks, but you need to get a handle on yourself. As somebody else said, this is the easy part.

wwyd lrc wrote:

Long story short... My wife is 5 months pregnant and we agreed to not find out the sex of the baby.

I'm at work today and she goes and gets an ultrasound and when I get off work I pass by her in the kitchen and she tells me we're having a boy.

I'm pissed. I wasn't invited to find out with her and I feel like she has ruined the only part of this pregnancy I was looking forward to. And now I feel like I'm going to resent her for the rest of it. I haven't talked to her since she told me and I feel betrayed and like we're not on the same page.

How would you feel, dear LRC friends? Am I overreacting?

Are you one of those people who tell your friends that "we" are pregnant?

Get a grip. Pregnancy is 99% the woman, you just contributed about 2 min to it.

So yeah you are a passenger in this I'm afraid. Get used to it, or you are just setting yourself up for disappointment. Your role only starts when the kid is older.

She probably didn't want you at the ultrasound because she thought you'd get in a fight with the baby's father.

Yes you are overreacting. There are a lot of things far more important to parenthood and the life of a child than what you are dealing with now

Why are there so many incel neck beards on Letsrun?

Some of these replies are absolute trash from trash people.

If I were you at the time she told me I would have told her i was disappointed she didn't stick to our agreement and then I would have jumped around screaming and celebrating that I was going to have a son !!! I have two of them and they are the best things that could have ever happened to me and are the joy of my life !!

Abort and start over.

Pics?