LM wrote:
Possibly true. Although society has routinely recoginzed and legitimized the call to being single given certain missions, especially those related to spiritual and religion (monks, priests, etc).
Regardless, why does that matter? Doing something that society says its desirable, because society says its desirable, is silly.
Do what satisfies and fulfills you. For most, given how we are raised and perhaps also natural innate desires, this ends up being a LTR or marriage. For others
For a smaller percentage, this is pursuing their mission as a single person. There is nothing wrong with this.
I agree with you here on your main point (i.e., nothing wrong with being single, do whatever satisfies you).
I would say that it matters ("it" being the recognition throughout time and across cultures that marriage is more desirable than being a singleton) in the sense that if being single truly was better for society as a whole (economically, relationally, etc.) then the opposite would historically be true: you'd see the recognition throughout time and across cultures that being single is to be praised while being married isn't.
Either way, I'm not opposed to anyone doing whatever makes them the happiest.
The only thing that does annoy me is when people try to claim that EVERYONE would be happier if they were single because of X, Y, or Z. That's such a dumb thing to say. I would be absolutely miserable if my live didn't include my wife and children. I look back on the single version of me and feel bad for that version of me because I am exponentially happier and more fulfilled in every single area of my life now that I was then.