Congrats on reclaiming your fitness and the progress you've made over the years while leading what I assume would be a "normal" life and a career.
I have coached many runners slow and fast. I would say the biggest "simple" difference from being a decent runner/marathoner has been addition of marathon paced runs and tempo-long-tempo runs into the program. My experience has seen runners mostly doing basic tempo runs and then trying to progress their easy/long run distance as they approach the marathon. That'll get you to the finish and you can run a solid time doing that but it really doesn't "prepare" you for what the marathon is.
You are doing plenty of miles for a 3:02 marathoner. I had a runner qualify for the Olympics on 70 mpw (one day off) and run 2:31. The difference for her was marathon pace and tempo-long-tempo. We used Daniels formula as our guide and we both learned a lot about how to apply the program and modify for our situation.
One thing we found was when we did the long part of the T-L-T run was that we came out of the first tempos a bit reved up and ran the EZ long portion of 8-10 miles too fast even though it felt "easy" after finishing faster tempo. When we got to the final tempo we could not finish the workout which is exactly how marathons usually go when you run too fast in the middle.
The ensuing times we were careful to run easier in the middle so we could complete the final tempo properly. This workout teaches you to run strong at the end when you are tired. And trust me you will be tired when you get to the final tempo. But when you finish you will know that you accomplished a great workout. Much more useful than another long run.
Good luck with the journey and at your age you should have a lot of PRs left in you.