Trump is the antithesis of success wrote:
Yeah, define success.
Having fun, being healthy, achieving something, and not being broke.
Method of getting there: find a stable job that you don't hate, doesn't demand a sh!tload of hours, and doesn't pay peanuts. State government jobs are probably the best.
Use your weekends, holidays, after-work hours, and vacation time to get that fun and achievement. This obviously varies from person to person. For some, it may mean climbing Everest. For others, it may mean writing a book. Or maybe it means tinkering with cars and computers and learning to fly a plane. Just do whatever floats your boat as long as it doesn't harm anyone else.