Racket, in all seriousness, this is a good reminder. It is always good advice to take a step back and identify who “they” - as in “they said” or “they think” - actually are.
Also, I am on the record in an earlier saying that “BiCO” is a creepy song, at least when I heard it sung by a HS show choir. I just think it is hilarious that there are people - and there ARE people - who are unphased by 50Shades but think BiCO is objectionable.
Does it matter? Does it affect me? Hell, if that is the standard for posting on social media, then bye-bye internet (which may not be the worst thing to ever happen to society.)