vivalarepublica wrote:
Two different things wrote:
Being married and having kids are often conflated, but they are distinct situations.
Having kids is great. After thinking for years that I didn't want any, I waited until I was well into adulthood to have them and love it.
On the other hand, marriage sucks for the most part. The PNSO is real, and to be honest it goes both ways. I can't even stand to be around my wife, let alone have 'relations' with her.
If there was a way to only have the kids but not have the marriage, that would be the way to go.
I hate to admit it, but east coast is far and away the best troll on the boards right now.
That's awfully generous. This thread deserves a 1/10 -- very obvious trolling from the start. Half of the responses are playing along, the other half just want to talk about their experiences. A couple got riled up, but this was overall pathetic trolling.