Has anyone ever given a woman a child knowing they would never fill the role of "father"?

rojo wrote:

Bandwidth wrote:

Cool story bro.

here's a true story

a somewhat known d1 coach, and mentor to several notable pros fathered a child a ways back but the mother wanted nothing to do with the man once she learned she was expecting. she raised the kid who did not have contact with the father for 18 years. the child became a musician and plays for a very well known band that is selling out concerts around the world as we speak.

and genetics and environment?

the paternal grandparents were professional classical musicians.

So why not tell us the names? What's the shame. There are millions of kids in the US raised each year without the help of a father.

I would, but the coach is a friend and I wish to respect his privacy. However, I promise you this. If I ever find an published article about the musician and his biological father I will send it to you and post it here.

Differences wrote:

What I mean is, say a woman is nearing 40 and desperately wants a child but not just with anyone. You two know each other and get along well but for whatever reason don't want to be together or can't be together. She wants you to give her a child, but both of you understand you will continue to live your life as normal as if the child is not yours at all. Anyone ever done this?

From a legal perspective you are still considered the father and legally have to support the child. The mom might say go your own way now, but what about later if she gets into a financial bind. To my knowledge in some states she cannot give you a "pass" or "waiver" for child support.

rojo wrote:

Bandwidth wrote:

Cool story bro.

here's a true story

a somewhat known d1 coach, and mentor to several notable pros fathered a child a ways back but the mother wanted nothing to do with the man once she learned she was expecting. she raised the kid who did not have contact with the father for 18 years. the child became a musician and plays for a very well known band that is selling out concerts around the world as we speak.

and genetics and environment?

the paternal grandparents were professional classical musicians.

So why not tell us the names? What's the shame. There are millions of kids in the US raised each year without the help of a father.

Maybe because it's none of your fvcking business and he respects the privacy of others.

Just a hunch.

A lesbian couple across the street from me in the old hood did ask me to do something like this, the wrong one wanted to be the momma.

Cool fantasy. Reality is if you stick it in you're on the hook for 18 years of child support. Even if you don't you may be on the hook.

Obvi wrote:

rojo wrote:

So why not tell us the names? What's the shame. There are millions of kids in the US raised each year without the help of a father.

Maybe because it's none of your fvcking business and he respects the privacy of others.

Just a hunch.

I get not giving the name of the coach, but can you give the name of the musician? It's not like we can figure out the coach from that.

Some women are damaged and do get pregnant by men and then saunter off thinking that they can do it alone.

Usually there is another man that takes up the slack, at least in the White and Hispanic communities.

Black community, No.

I heard a song recently, a Black rapper lady saying her 2 boys 28 and 29 year old Boys, didn't want to leave the nest.

Yes, that lady took 2 b*stards from men that didn't stick around.

Usually, also, it's the Divorced Grandmother that turns into a Man for her B*stard grandkids. At age 45 or 65

Chaos ...

But too, I think it has happened to many men by way of nasty women sleeping with multiple men.

Also, with women impregnating themselves after Oral. Yes that does happen.

That's why I played games with women and didn't touch many ...

Because I'm the prize, I was and I am too valuable. (Humbly stated, of course)

I had big goals and plans that I humbly accomplished. I lead the pack.

WEFever wrote:

Obvi wrote:

Maybe because it's none of your fvcking business and he respects the privacy of others.

Just a hunch.

I get not giving the name of the coach, but can you give the name of the musician? It's not like we can figure out the coach from that.

I have no idea.

All the "bad boys" who attract women like flies drop babies on those women and leave. This is the case for all people all over the world.

You are without a doubt the worst excuse for a human being to ever post here.