Where's Dr. Phil when you need him?? Letsrun.com of course! Am I over-reacting or is my wife messing around on me?

This thread seriously suffers from the lack of input from OP.

American cinema therapy

where this is headed... wrote:

Well I'm not sure how you pronounce it or anything, but I believe it's called a menage a trois.

Ain't gay if it's a 3-way.

Maybe you can suggest you watch because it will turn you on. They either go for it or the guy thinks your a weirdo and leaves.

Right around this time though go open a desperate checking and savings account. Take everything and put in your account. I mean everything. Cancel your joint credit cards, everything. Then have her crap packed (or thrown) out on the front lawn. Tell her to get the F out.

She will cry and apologize or go to her BF house. Either way you man up and get an answer.

I am hooper

I am not Hooper! i just dont know how we know that this guy is not a troll. But i hope he figueres it out!

a plea for MORE MORE MORE wrote:

This thread seriously suffers from the lack of input from OP.

Sunshine Canyon, site of the putative en flagrande delicto, is just outside of Boulder. The lovely couple (both runners) are from Boulder. How many of their friends are runners? And how many of them wander over to Letsrun from time to time? And subsequent to their visit to the world famous boards, how many of those had speaks with Dr. Thelma-Louise?

How excited was Dr. Thelma-Louise to have her colleagues and the staff at her clinic hearing the details of marital difficulties? And what do you think she told the the Haus-Herr Hooper when she next encountered him?

And you wonder why he has not reappeared on the board

Oh that and she is a troll

Fear the doctors wrote:

You are is serious trouble dude: remember this movie?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PKEE-fS9WrU

Wow, great movie. Never saw it, but I just watched it because of this thread!

jecht wrote:

I'm sure you work your ass off, but don't marry wealthier women, honestly. It sounds sexist as hell but it's true. Being a sub teacher is not a bad profession but being married to an MD is bad news. Most of them are ambitious and cold. Also, see "Blue Valentine" for this--a deadbeat dad and his daughter lament a divorce from the mom (a college-educated nurse).

This is what liberalism gets you--empowered careerist women with ambitions and calculations.

Women I know with $$ and are divorced usually have husbands who make less $.

My parents don't have a great marriage but my father is the breadwinner and they make it work. It's better that way.

I used to date a girl who wanted to be a surgeon. Same exact thing happened to her. She became a liberal loony in college (she was a loony before, but not as liberal). She would always say that she didn't know about having kids and that she would just want to work more and not be around them if she did. She also had a sort of daddy issues. Spent some time in a loony bin before we dated (I didn't find out until the week before I broke it off with her). I was also aspiring to be a full time coach, which obviously isn't a good paycheck.

I can see exactly what you are saying. She is a cold hearted b*tch and I'm glad I got out of that.

On top of everything..

Your wife could be in serious trouble. Dating a current patient is unethical and could cause her to lose her license. The thing is SHE SHOULD KNOW THIS.

So not only is she risking her marriage, she is also risking her career for Tim Allen in Wild Hogs.

Thank you for understanding! A lot of the liberal lies will say "check your privilege!" and all of that shit.

I'm an Asian male, so I don't get "white privilege." When I tell them that they shut up.

The fems do have one point--if they are against fratboys, then I get their take. But not all men are fratboys.

If anything I get where females in engineering struggle.

I'm a male in healthcare, and it's all women. HR, every bit of it. And most of the time, HR will take the female over the male candidate even if both are qualified, educated, etc.

This is short so be prepared:

I tracked her down and tried to confront her when she was with him at the building near the hospital. It did not go well, a lot of screaming and yelling and hand gestures and I am not really sure any of us heard anything being said because the guy kept revving his engine. They tried to pull away and I put my hand on the handlebars or whatever you call them and either his foot or the kickstand hit me and knocked me to the ground. I should have left it there but … I tried to run after them but my elbow was bleeding so I got in my car and just drove around a bit. I saw her car and decided they would have to come back, so I went into the ER and they cleaned and wrapped my elbow - its broken. The hospital security guards showed up and took a report, I guess cause the incident happened on hospital grounds. They radioed some people then the County police showed up and I was issued a no trespassing letter/order which I had to sign left-handed, apparently they knew who I was and word travelled fast. I drove away, then walked back, let the air out of her tire, then went home and picked the kids up from school.

Next day I got served with a restraining order notice to move out for 7 days no contact with her or anyone till the hearing and a criminal misdemeanor assault charge for "tampering with vehicle".

Anyway have limited wifi access at the moment at the library as they took my phone for evidence saying I threatened her, which I never did.

I screwed up but I feel a bit freer now that it is all out and I feel like I stood up for myself. It will be a long hard road but my head is up. Pray and thanks.

your kids are in summer school?

Hooper wrote:

They tried to pull away and I put my hand on the handlebars or whatever you call them and either his foot or the kickstand hit me and knocked me to the ground. I should have left it there but … I tried to run after them but my elbow was bleeding so I got in my car and just drove around a bit. I saw her car and decided they would have to come back, so I went into the ER and they cleaned and wrapped my elbow - its broken.

Next day I got served with a restraining order notice to move out for 7 days no contact with her or anyone till the hearing and a criminal misdemeanor assault charge for "tampering with vehicle".

You're not the OP, and that's a terribly bogus story. They knocked you down by driving recklessly, broke your elbow, and you're the one who got a restraining order. You need to stand up for yourself and fight this, if true, which I doubt. If true, expose her and turn her in for dating a patient. Don't go through the hospital because they'll try to cover it up.

All this by 12:28 pm on Thursday of the big ride?

On the clock wrote:

All this by 12:28 pm on Thursday of the big ride?

Good catch. Either they moved the ride up (notice he mentions "next day" after the ride) or this isn't OP. Or, more likely, OP was a careless troll.

But how do you know this didn't happened awhile back? The OP or the last person is maybe writing this after the fact to cover his identity.

OP I'm really sorry that this is happening to you but you need to stop fighting the resistance with your ex and move on. You're making it more difficult for yourself.

Not I the same written pose as the OP. Obvious imposter.

No way the wife is riding away with a patient on a motorcycle at work. When you're cheating you meet at a neutral location. My guess the imposter post is written by someone 18 or under.

My recommendation is to not make a scene about perceived injustices.

Instead of that, observe to see what is happening, take note and gather evidence for yourself, so you can decide personally the best course of action for yourself. Plan carefully the best way to move on with your life. Most of all, to your best to stop any injustice from continuing, spoken from my point of view as a child at that time, even drastic measures if that's the only possible remedy, but do this in a way that won't mess up your own life or that of others who are not part of the cause.

What I'm saying is that she's purposely trying to mess up your world, so put a stop to that now, mess up her world instead, but do it silently, without drawing attention to yourself. Meanwhile keep burning the bridges and moving on with your life. Instead of her taking away what you have, take away what she has, not for yourself but just take it away so she's not able to continue the abuse. An easy start, since she's dating a patient, is to take away her profession.

Not gunna happen wrote:

Not I the same written pose as the OP. Obvious imposter.

No way the wife is riding away with a patient on a motorcycle at work. When you're cheating you meet at a neutral location. My guess the imposter post is written by someone 18 or under.

They didn't meet at the "neutral location" because she is not "cheating" . . . yet

In Hooper's own words:

"I've admitted to her that I've made poor choices in my comments at times...by questioning this guy or that guy. I know it's wrong and not healthy for our relationship. I know that's not fair to my wife, it's just me being insecure."

His act is tired: clingy, boring, controlling and paranoid: not the image one wants to convey to enhance your power of attraction. If she wasn't sniffing around before she will be now