Fiance wants to bring parents on honeymoon...

I'm surprised the in-laws would agree to this. Sure, it's fun for parents to spend quality time with a child who is now married because you're both couples and suddenly have more in common than in times past. But I can't imagine parents wanting or agreeing to join their child on their honeymoon.

I mean, can you imagine any conversation at the breakfast table the morning after the wedding?

a.w.k.w.a.r.d

won't be any awkward convo because no sex just me with blue balls. I am expecting the awkwardness to come the night of when the mom will not want to leave but the dad will be trying to get out of our hair.

my aunt and her now-ex husband took my grandmother to italy for their honeymoon

Stop and get out. Sell your stuff, gather up all your cash, buy a van and travel ,find a place you like, and train like a MF.

postwedshut wrote:

won't be any awkward convo because no sex just me with blue balls. I am expecting the awkwardness to come the night of when the mom will not want to leave but the dad will be trying to get out of our hair.

0/10.

Nice trolling. You had us going to this point. But now you ruined it if you don't think it would be awkward the next morning.

So, how bout those Knicks last night? . . .

True story. A guy I worked with for his second marriage his fiancée insisted that her parents come along on the honeymoon trip and he pay for it. He's and idiot for agreeing to that. They divorced after 6 months and he spent $50k on the wedding and honeymoon. What a waste.

This is so wrong on so many levels. But just know, that you will always be second fiddle to her parents. Any conflicts, she will always side with them. And your family (parents, siblings) will even be further behind. E.g., One day you will want your parents to watch the baby, she won't allow it.

She seems to play the 'respect my decision' card. Repect is a 2-way street. She needs to respect your feelings, decisions, etc, too. Obviously she does not.

If you are ok with her making all the decisions in your life, you being second, your family third then go ahead and marry her. But power corrupts and it will get worse. I've seen it happen.

You better have a frank discussion with her or get out.

postwedshut wrote:

She wants to bring them on our honeymoon, rent a house house on the beach together beach, and here is the kicker she said "do not even mention or bring sex up with me". Is this some kind of record for shut off?

"do not even mention or bring sex up with ME". - Emphasis added.

Take this literally. This is your chance to talk to the parents.

1.) They might leave you two alone starting at 4 o'clock each day (Still pretty awful.)

2.) They may not want to come (Get them on your side.)

3.) They might be incestuous swingers. (Pics?)

Hold up wrote:

3.) They might be incestuous swingers. (Pics?)

My sexual horizon just expanded in a negative way.

It seems that you have discussed and are OK with this idea of a sexless marriage since you asked her to marry you.

Now you think she should change her mind?

I doubt she will.

I went on Honeymoon with both sets of parents and 10 other couples.

Of course we had been living together for 4 years when we Honeymooned.

Trolled many fooled few

impressed wrote:

10/10

A page of responses including both brojos. That's mighty fine, son.

Agreed.

Having both brojos post on the thread is a winner.

OP Come On Man wrote:

OP, if this is serious, you need to put off the wedding until you figure things out. I am a married family man and even I find this disturbing. Do not run away from the woman; I assume you love her. But you have some problems that will manifest into a much larger issue if unchecked. Get working on it. I suggest counseling.

If this is a troll post, you could have tried a little harder.

people who want sex, have it. People who don't want sex make excuses like the one she gave you. I've been the person avoiding sex before and her attitude reminds me of how it is.Theres more going on here than just her waiting to get married imo. Also, when you don't want sex from your partner, its really uncomfortable and annoying when they hound you for it. The way she said "dont even think about bringing up sex" on your honeymoon makes it seem like she knows you have expectations for the trip and wants to shut em down now. Hell maybe thats the whole reason she wants her parents there, to reduce the intimacy

wejo wrote:

Don't privately vent about something major.

Umm, i wouldn't say posting on a messageboard for millions to read is venting privately.

I think you're trolling but yeah.. bail bail out NOW.

rojo wrote:

wejo wrote:

Don't privately vent about something major.

Umm, i wouldn't say posting on a messageboard for millions to read is venting privately.

Go rojo! Take him down!

yeah, also 7 posts are from the OP, always a big hint on a troll, they're a criminal and they can't stay away from the crime scene.

cat fight spectator wrote:

rojo wrote:

Umm, i wouldn't say posting on a messageboard for millions to read is venting privately.

Go rojo! Take him down!

wejo goes home DEVASTATED!!!

I am not a brojo, I am not trolling. This is a real situation.I had never in my life heard of parent's on a honeymoon till now. I do not hound her for sex i find it undignified to beg. I m in good shape, good looking, have a decent job, I treat her very well, and pay all the bills. Then she throws this crap at me. How do I get here over this "if people know I can't have sex" insecurity? I honeslty think that is the big one and the parents are her excuse to play into it.