Fiance wants to bring parents on honeymoon...

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Smooth Playa wrote:

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This is a generous score for this atrocious effort.

Sadly I wish this was a joke but it isnt. Only plus I can see is maybe her parents offer to pay for everything.

Your entire married life will be like this.

OP, if this is serious, you need to put off the wedding until you figure things out. I am a married family man and even I find this disturbing. Do not run away from the woman; I assume you love her. But you have some problems that will manifest into a much larger issue if unchecked. Get working on it. I suggest counseling.

If this is a troll post, you could have tried a little harder.

If you're trolling, quit watching Lifetime TV for Women.

If this is legit, you're Taliban or something, so go away.

postwedshut wrote:

She wants to bring them on our honeymoon, rent a house house on the beach together beach, and here is the kicker she said "do not even mention or bring sex up with me". Is this some kind of record for shut off?

I think the OP might be legit. I could see someone wanting the event to be about her family. I'm concerned though that she siad "Don't even mention or being up sex with me." What is the status of your sex life right now?

You'd think if it was decent she'd be looking forward to sex on her honeymoon.

Do not marry the crazy control freak.

It was a decent sex life but her big excuse is she doesn't feel sexy. Then it became once we are married I will feel more open again and not insecure about it. I'm in good shape she let herself go a bit since her college competition days but nothing crazy. I'm not so much worried about her parents coming I can understand weddings being about family and what ever. But the concept of do not even talk to me about sex on the honeymoon just baffled me hard.

rojo wrote:

postwedshut wrote:

She wants to bring them on our honeymoon, rent a house house on the beach together beach, and here is the kicker she said "do not even mention or bring sex up with me". Is this some kind of record for shut off?

I think the OP might be legit. I could see someone wanting the event to be about her family. I'm concerned though that she siad "Don't even mention or being up sex with me." What is the status of your sex life right now?

You'd think if it was decent she'd be looking forward to sex on her honeymoon.

Is the OP mother in law hot? This could get interesting.

Likely your fiancé is joking. Women play these kind of games. They don't mean it

Just say I do and pull the trigger.

Bail out now....

Also the strangest insecurity she gets is if people assume we are going to have sex she refuses. Like a last night together or on a vacation. So I guess wedding night and honeymoon falls into that category of people will know I am having sex and makes me feel guilty logic.

postwedshut wrote:

Also the strangest insecurity she gets is if people assume we are going to have sex she refuses. Like a last night together or on a vacation. So I guess wedding night and honeymoon falls into that category of people will know I am having sex and makes me feel guilty logic.

Yeah... you two need to go to therapy right now. BEFORE you get married. Do NOT just "pull the trigger."

postwedshut wrote:

She wants to bring them on our honeymoon, rent a house house on the beach together beach, and here is the kicker she said "do not even mention or bring sex up with me". Is this some kind of record for shut off?

This may be the record for shut off!

In all seriousness, the bigger issue is you need to be able to discuss this with her and say what you want. If you don't want her parents on the honeymoon discuss it. If sex is important on the honeymoon,discuss it.

Don't privately vent about something major.

Its not so much the no sex on a trip that is what bothers me. It is her willingness to be so casual in just throwing "no sex" out there.

rojo wrote:

postwedshut wrote:

She wants to bring them on our honeymoon, rent a house house on the beach together beach, and here is the kicker she said "do not even mention or bring sex up with me". Is this some kind of record for shut off?

I think the OP might be legit.

Well, he is calling his Fiance as a she. A transgender romance maybe.

10/10

A page of responses including both brojos. That's mighty fine, son.

We do discuss it but it always comes down to her saying respect how i feel, or that she will work on it, and like a fool i believe her. I only posted on here to see if anyone had similar situations on the honeymoon and to get some steam out. I think therapy definitely needs to be in the cards.

postwedshut wrote:

We do discuss it but it always comes down to her saying....

Ummm, a fiance is a male. You mean him. Maybe you haven't had sex yet so you don't know the surprise in store for you on honeymoon night.