Old guy run slow wrote:
txRUNNERgirl wrote:They're both at fault because they're both in the relationship. Relationships aren't about "sides." And you wonder why you get the PNSO.
Not really wanting to argue here but they are both at fault because they are both in the relationship? What is PNSO?
PNSO = Pacific Northwest Significant Other. A much feared outcome.
Maybe this is a red flag all around...if there's this much drama (from both sides) already over such a dumb situation (which they made public for some strange reason), could be good idea to take a lil breather for a bit before tyin that knot.
Can't seem to find Pacific Northwest significant other or PNSO. I must be older than I thought. Too old for strippers and too old to understand the discussion. Sad for me.
Maybe she meant PNCO as in post nuptial cut off.
Protect Ya Neck wrote:
Still developing, last I heard she is still angry and second guessing the wedding... Probably a scare tactic as they've already paid for the wedding and reception..
appreciate the solid insight, I completely agree with your strip clubs/ lying stance.
I always say there are two types of guys "strip club people" and "anti stip club people."
The thing that I'm concerned with is a "scare tactic". If she's doing anything as a scare tactic then he needs to run for the fences and be thankful.
rojo wrote:
Protect Ya Neck wrote:Still developing, last I heard she is still angry and second guessing the wedding... Probably a scare tactic as they've already paid for the wedding and reception..
appreciate the solid insight, I completely agree with your strip clubs/ lying stance.
I always say there are two types of guys "strip club people" and "anti stip club people."
The thing that I'm concerned with is a "scare tactic". If she's doing anything as a scare tactic then he needs to run for the fences and be thankful.
You think? Did you ever think that her scare tactic is a form of protection? In other words she doesn't trust her soon to be husband b/c he has not reassure her of his trust...🙄
txRUNNERgirl wrote:
They're both at fault because they're both in the relationship. Relationships aren't about "sides." And you wonder why you get the PNSO.
PNSO is all about bait and switch. And this is all about asserting social dominance early on. Either he folds now and for the rest of his life or he sorry, lets move on.
Cant wait to give the strip club gift card. Definitely the best gift suggestion.
This was definitely a scare tactic and he is most definitely whipped. But at least he's happy, I guess...
Clearly you are trolling. Posting when the thread slows for no reason other than to keep it moving.
3/10 only because the responses were humorous.
Too old for strippers...
NEVER!!, now get out there and get the whole silicone and glitter experience.
Too old for strippers. Not too old for the love of my life. I'm into flabby saggy arms and cellulite cushioning nowadays, with a smile and passion. I look at my wife and you might see her as old and soft but I see Melisandre the Red Woman. Love is the real magic.
Protect Ya Neck wrote:
We've told him about the power struggle in the relationship... he is blind to it.
About two decades ago we had a bachelors night out where each of us discovered he had voiced his opinion about the upcoming marriage to our friend. He ploughed through all of it.
He has since shot himself.
Just a guess wrote:
Maybe she meant PNCO as in post nuptial cut off.
shut-off,like in that thread title somehewere on the first 5 pages (usually)
Did he survive?? Damn.. I hope this doesn't turn out to be a similar situation..
Update: the wedding is on and he "cant believe how lucky he is to still have her"...
If you think I'm trolling you can believe that.... I wish I could make this stuff up...
Protect Yo Neck wrote:
Did he survive?? Damn.. I hope this doesn't turn out to be a similar situation..
Update: the wedding is on and he "cant believe how lucky he is to still have her"...
If you think I'm trolling you can believe that.... I wish I could make this stuff up...
Hope she at least lets him have his boys back for the wedding. Not that he'll get to use them, but for ornamental and tailoring sake.
I'm still trying to figure out how you guys got together for drinks and ended up trashing the basement. Are you all high school juniors?
The rest of the story is useless drama and I wholeheartedly agree with the post that says she's feeling guilty over something she did
Old guy run slow wrote:
Too old for strippers. Not too old for the love of my life. I'm into flabby saggy arms and cellulite cushioning nowadays, with a smile and passion. I look at my wife and you might see her as old and soft but I see Melisandre the Red Woman. Love is the real magic.
This is beautiful. A shining star of true love in a thread about the marriage of a witch and an eunuch as told by their immature friend.
mellow seeds wrote:
Sounds like she is pretty terrible. Why would you marry someone who has an issue going to a strip club for your batchelor party?
Honestly, that sounds like a terribly lame way to go out anyway. Playing games in the basement with the guys? Really?
. Playing video games in his Mom's basement as a "bachelor party" sounds pretty lame, but these are millenials, menials, whatever. They're self-centered and stupid.
Agreed that she is terribleCall off the wedding now, as she's saying I don't trust you the least little bit. Maybe live together a little while.
This is what's wrong with men today. Own what you do and don't feel guilty about it. Don't lie about it either.
I'm sorry, but Facebook messaging you guys about how he lied to his wife? This is so juvenile.
You had a bachelor party, you drank and went to a strip club. Pretty standard stuff (and this is coming from someone who doesn't drink, and doesn't go to strip clubs ever).
This woman will OWN your friend if he gets married to her. Terrible decision to follow through with the marriage. There is too much drama already.
i ate cake wrote:
its really not a big deal. Shes probably just being a drama queen about it out of jealousy or she is having second thoughts about the whole marriage and is trying to turn this into a possible out for her.
Nooo. It's a big deal.
If she's a drama queen about this, then months after the wedding there will be a new post in the post-nuptial shutoff thread.
Without getting into the ethics of a strip club, groom-to-be should have discussed what's okay/not okay before with the bride to be. If they can't have a simple conversation about limits and negotiating a few (boundaries too) , then, it's not going to be a good marriage.
The lessons in communication, trust, and boundaries starts early.