Getting married soon but still in love with my ex

Get both Women to live in 2 different states.....Become a bigamist!!

Grow Up. You are in love with a fantasy, an unresolved conflict, a figure of your imagination. Leave it there.

You are afraid of comfort, friendship, and relationship development.

And you watch too much TV. Life is not an episode of friends.

Any problems you have with your fiance, you would have with your ex. The problem lies in you.

Need help....if i were you go through the marriage. I was in a sort of similar situation in August when i got married. The truth is that I don't believe that there is only one person out their for you. If this were true then all widows would never remarry. My grandma's first husband died when he was 26. She quickly remarried soon after because of having 5 children. On my wedding day she wrote me a note and stuck it in my pocket. It read, "Our only wish to you is that you can be nearly as happy as we are. If your half as happily married as we are, you will have a wonderful marriage." She has been married for 41 years. I consider my ex, as my first love; my wife as my second love. The numbers only indicate the chronological order, not preference. If you love the woman and she is good you then why not. You can't keep looking over your shoulder wondering what might have been.

Good luck with your decision. Hopefully this helped.

when i asked for advice my old man told me that getting married is like buying a computer. chances are there will be a better/nicer/faster/more attractive (whatever you look for in a partner) version coming out next year. just be happy with the one you choose

Oh my god! Advice on love from a WOMAN!!! Bwahahahahahahha

Oh my god! Advice on love from a WOMAN!!! Bwahahahahahahha

You are on the wrong board, jackass.

[quote]Sarah wrote:

Bear in mind that marriage is a ton of work, that like a plant which has bloomed if neglected for any length of time will die. .............[quote]

DAMN IT....is that true??? Because I SUCK at gardening and watering plants. They ALWAYS die on me. I hope you're wrong.......

(and since you have opened up here, tell us what went wrong in your marriage that led to divorce. Did one of you cheat?? Was it all your bastard's husband's fault??? Really, let us know. Because while it is probably easier to learn from one's own mistakes, it is more fun to learn from another's [since we get to feel better about ourselves in the process, knowing someone else messed up as bad as we normally do] )

whew....if you wanted to get me down, if you wanted to make me feel like a fool well then I guess you suceeded today... All I can say is I hung in there as long as I could. I am not going to point fingers as to why the relationship broke down....it takes 2 to tango. Ya know what for once I am speechless, perhaps I need a break from Letsrun....

It's relative.... wrote:

[quote]Sarah wrote:

Bear in mind that marriage is a ton of work, that like a plant which has bloomed if neglected for any length of time will die. .............[quote]

DAMN IT....is that true??? Because I SUCK at gardening and watering plants. They ALWAYS die on me. I hope you're wrong.......

(and since you have opened up here, tell us what went wrong in your marriage that led to divorce. Did one of you cheat?? Was it all your bastard's husband's fault??? Really, let us know. Because while it is probably easier to learn from one's own mistakes, it is more fun to learn from another's [since we get to feel better about ourselves in the process, knowing someone else messed up as bad as we normally do] )

Threesome.