Why is it hot women are close to impossible to get in HS/College, difficult to get in mid to late 20s, but actually

True that. Look at half dead geezers like Soros and Redstone.

current college student wrote:

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It might be close to impossible for the socially inept people who frequent this site,.

Hahaha

aldfkjljk;lfddfaskl wrote:

women after say 28 start to hear the clock ticking and then compare themselves to the SMOKING hotties at 23, which they'll never ever ever be again mind you, then start lowering their standards....

We as men of course think theyre hot at 28-35/45, but walk onto any college campus with youre 40 year old hottie and youll break youre neck looking at the 21 year olds- human nature, sorry....

Now youre 40 year old hottie is resigned to comparing herself to the other women in corporate suit and pearl necklace when the fact is you take her to a beach in a bikini and she looks more like youre mother than youre date....

THIS. On any college campus you can't swing a dead cat without hitting a 9 or a 10. Honestly, no where else on the entire planet will you find a more concentrated gathering of hot girls. And when you're in college yourself, there's also the element of organic interaction through classes, clubs, etc. It's like a sensory overload. I remember when I was a freshman trying to date two roommates simultaneously, not realizing how idiotic and insensitive it was. It was all just too easy.

Then you hit the real world, and everything changes overnight. Those college girls have moved back home with their parents or started a stressful 9-5 jobs. They start putting on weight, giving up their passions, and focusing less on their social lives. If I had a nickel for every OKCupid date I've gone on with a 20-something post graduate who was boring and unhappy with her life, I'd be rich enough to attract a shallow supermodel.

And the biggest thing that changes is guys and girls alike stop meeting cool, attractive people to date in everyday life. Once you graduate college, you have to go out of your way to meet someone. You can't just roll out of bed and enter a lecture hall full of 40 hot girls. So the girls settle for lesser guys, and the guys settle for lesser girls. All of the sudden, a girl who would be just another face in the crowd on a college campus becomes the hottest girl you've seen all day.

kaleidoscope wrote:

There's almost nothing more pathetic (and amusing to behold) than a lecherous older man sowing his juvenile oats.

So, you are saying these women, who date the older guys, have no free will and are victims to "lecherous older men". The pathetic male fantasy that they are sad creatures who need to be rescued; not women making their own pragmatic choices based on greed.

When I see a young hot girl with a much older much wealthier guy - I mostly think he's just delusional ,i.e., thinks he's still the attractive young man, or an idiot, guys fall in love for stupid reasons, and looks is one of them. But the woman's behaviour? Well, you can pretend she's in love (trained herself like Holly Golightly), but is love that pragmatic? Who's behaviour is more pathetic or just awful? The delusional old dude, or the one keeping her eye on the prize - money... and what she's willing to do to get it, which isn't going to work every day.

aldfkjljk;lfddfaskl wrote:

We as men of course think theyre hot at 28-35/45, but walk onto any college campus with youre 40 year old hottie and youll break youre neck looking at the 21 year olds- human nature, sorry....

Now youre 40 year old hottie is resigned to comparing herself to the other women in corporate suit and pearl necklace when the fact is you take her to a beach in a bikini and she looks more like youre mother than youre date....

Good post. I think men when they are 18 have a very narrow definition of what is hot. As you get older, that perception expands.

I remember thinking there were a handful of women at my entire college that were amazing in looks but bet if I went to college now I'd think most of the women were attractive.

First of all, never deal with a chick older than 19 or heavier than 110. No reason to hang with dried up old seahags when there will always be a new crop of teenagers. Sure, there are some hot twenty somethings, but they exponentially lose that thigh gap, have bad attitudes and have had every square inch pawed over.

Have a fat wallet, be super nice and learn the game.

hotties not fatties wrote:

First of all, never deal with a chick older than 19 or heavier than 110. No reason to hang with dried up old seahags when there will always be a new crop of teenagers. Sure, there are some hot twenty somethings, but they exponentially lose that thigh gap, have bad attitudes and have had every square inch pawed over.

Have a fat wallet, be super nice and learn the game.

Ha ha, I think this was Jimmy Saville's philosophy!

Phil Harmonic wrote:

haha wrote:

Post of the day

Except most guys look like bald versions of Sean Connery(s) and hence in no way resemble him.

Sean Connery has been bald since 1960. WTH are you talking about?

I agree that the market for available women below age 25 is tough. Many of them are still getting a lot of attention or else in longterm relationships from high school or college that are doomed to fail. When I was 25 I felt like I knew only one or two single women and by the time I was 30 there were dozens of single women around me.

Part of this is simply the benefit of aging -- you know more people by now! Your network of contacts expands (unless you are anti-social) and you should have a wider pool.

Don't hate on the runner body. It may always struggle against muscle, but by the time you're over 30 that skinny runner body is preferable to some other guys who are downright unhealthy. The average guy at 20 with some muscle now hardly exercises and has gained 5 pounds per year. It snuck up on him but he's 50 pounds heavier at 30 and he might be another 50 pounds heavier by 40. The average guy (and girl) can really let themselves go.

Maybe it's like beer goggles, but age goggles.

Women get hotter the older you get.

rojo wrote:

aldfkjljk;lfddfaskl wrote:

We as men of course think theyre hot at 28-35/45, but walk onto any college campus with youre 40 year old hottie and youll break youre neck looking at the 21 year olds- human nature, sorry....

Now youre 40 year old hottie is resigned to comparing herself to the other women in corporate suit and pearl necklace when the fact is you take her to a beach in a bikini and she looks more like youre mother than youre date....

Good post. I think men when they are 18 have a very narrow definition of what is hot. As you get older, that perception expands.

I remember thinking there were a handful of women at my entire college that were amazing in looks but bet if I went to college now I'd think most of the women were attractive.

rojo,

What you observed is your standards lowering as a result of fewer options. Demand (horniness) was constant while supply decreased. For the same reason, if you got sent to prison for life, you would, you know ...

jamin wrote:

rojo wrote:

Good post. I think men when they are 18 have a very narrow definition of what is hot. As you get older, that perception expands.

I remember thinking there were a handful of women at my entire college that were amazing in looks but bet if I went to college now I'd think most of the women were attractive.

rojo,

What you observed is your standards lowering as a result of fewer options. Demand (horniness) was constant while supply decreased. For the same reason, if you got sent to prison for life, you would, you know ...

Rojo managed to find a wife. As for you...

On some real basic and primal level - all other things being equal, you can survive longer than a younger man.

I am 55 and live in Japan and get flirted at very often by 20 year olds. It is strange those same girls wouldn't have given me a look 10 years ago. Unfortunately/fortunately I am married now so I have to resist the temptation.

Old Broke and Lonely wrote:

This entire thread can end with the following fact: Any man of any age of any appearance can get any woman of any (legal) age of any appearance. All he needs is a fat wallet. If a dude has cash, he could be the biggest d-bag/liar/cheat in the world and a woman will look past all of his transgressions and personality flaws. Period.

Describes SFH's husband to a tee except it was actually daddy's fat wallet and not his own that he was using to temp the future Mrs

I think everyone is missing the obvious answer. Men and women in their mid to late 20s look much better than they did from ages 17 through 22.

rojo wrote:

aldfkjljk;lfddfaskl wrote:

We as men of course think theyre hot at 28-35/45, but walk onto any college campus with youre 40 year old hottie and youll break youre neck looking at the 21 year olds- human nature, sorry....

Now youre 40 year old hottie is resigned to comparing herself to the other women in corporate suit and pearl necklace when the fact is you take her to a beach in a bikini and she looks more like youre mother than youre date....

Good post. I think men when they are 18 have a very narrow definition of what is hot. As you get older, that perception expands.

I remember thinking there were a handful of women at my entire college that were amazing in looks but bet if I went to college now I'd think most of the women were attractive.

Conundrum wrote:

...... women in their mid to late 20s look much better than they did from ages 17 through 22.

Interesting that you come to the exact opposite conclusion that everyone else has. Either you are a liar, a troll, or just have odd preferences.

complete bullsh!t that women look better in late 20's than 22.

When women work for a couple of years, they join crossfit gyms and start wearing these "strong is the new skinny" t shirts. WHOOP DEE DOO Youre just trying to excuse why you've gained the workforce 15 on top of the freshman 15 you gained 5 years prior.

To the credit of the late 2o's honey in the strong is the new skinny t shirt, she is in better shape than the 200 pound women she works with but try pulling that act on a college campus.