I can always tell which kids are spanked and which ones don't when in public. Kids who get the time outs are the out of control little brats who throw temper tantrums in public embarrassing the parents.
Kids who get spanked never dare act up in public. A look from the parent will make him or her stop. Call it fear or what you will, but a parent has to be able to control their children.
In our family all six of us were not only spanked, but at times were were hit with belts, shoes, garden hose etc. We all did excellent in school and all went on to college. We have a great relationship with our parents and I personally thank them for the way they raised me. I never even thought about doing drugs, staying out after curfew or ever ever raised my voice to mom or dad.
My cousins (3 of them) were raised opposite. Their parents are such nice people. She is my aunt by blood and I love her, she is so nice to everyone, gentle and loving. They never ever spanked their kids. It was always the got to the corner or your room and the time out type of parents. They gently talked to their kids and tried to teach them right from wrong. Results?? the girl did alright. She ended up going to college and became successful. The two boys never went to high school. They started using drugs at 13 years old. One has been in prison 3 times. Car accidents, drunk drivings, have kids with different women and still live at home with their parents even though they're both over 25. They also mistreat their parents, they don't pay rent and have taken over the house their parents pay for. Their parents now sleep in a little trailer in the yard so their beloved boys can be more comfortable in the house. Those kids grew up spoiled like no other. They got everything they desired and were out of control from the time they were little. I feel bad for my aunt and her husband, but it's their fault. Had those boys been raised by my parents, they would not be this way. Just saying.