One should not go out too fast. You should start slow, work your way around and feel what is out there. Once you have established some form of confidence, then and only then should you slowly make your way through the opening(s), working your way around, back and forth if necessary, until you feel you have maximized your effort. Once the finish line is within view, you should give it all of your remaining effort, trying your best to achieve the most desirable feeling of satisfaction and a job well done. exhaustion may come later, but so will the rewards, and for days, maybe weeks, you will reap those rewards and accolades. This dilemma of being done very early in the event, is not uncommon in many teenage boys. However, with hard work, practice, and many many attempts, it is quite possible that most young men will achieve the ultimate goal.