yet another parent wrote:
Finally, some good advice on this thread. People are being pretty hard on the OP. Haven't your parents ever suggested you give something a try, and even though you did it reluctantly, you wound up thanking them for the suggestion? My guess is the OP suggested it because he felt that the kid would both enjoy it and be good at it. If he's wrong, it's not the end of the world, you move on to something else, knowing that you gave it a shot. I think it's actually part of a parent's job to introduce their children to new things, encourage them to go outside of their comfort zone, etc. If you let them make all the decisions, they're likely to miss out on a lot.
Bear in mind that you're using terms such as "suggested" and "introduce". Perhaps the OP was not being literal, but you'll note that he wrote PUSHED. There is a huge difference.
The other day we were watching the WCs and I asked my 8-year-old if he enjoys running. His was response was "yes" so I asked him if he thought he'd ever want to try running like Daddy or the guys on TV. Again, his response was "yes".
So the intial (albeit thin) foundation has been laid. Next year when he has a chance to run in the 4th Grade XC program -- one 1K race per week w/no formal practices -- I may ask again and SUGGEST that he try if he thinks it will be fun. But I will not PUSH him into it or force him to participate. If he catches the running bug, great. But I'm not going to go all whacko when I know that there are so many other sports and fitness options.