I have been seeing two very attractive women for the past two months. I enjoy my time with each of them tremendously; they are both beautiful and intelligent and I have nothing but positive things to say about them.
However, during the past week, both of them have told me that they would like to start a serious relationship and date exclusively. I’ve been dating casually for well over a year and a half, and these are the first two women that I’ve met that I have been interested in having a relationship with.
I know I have to decide on one or the other, but the only factor the makes me lean toward one more than the other is stability. One of the women is a regional actress, and she has a very hectic schedule. The job pays very little, and she does not own a car. She also performs shows in other large cities from time to time, and can be gone for over a month at a time. The other woman has a very stable career and is more in line with me economically.
Has anyone here been in a similar situation? I have no idea how to talk to the actress about this, and I am very worried about hurting her.
Thanks for your help. I really appreciate it.