The Sun has a lot of matter in it. That's why it is able to produce its own energy. The fact that there isn't even more matter in the Sun will allow it to remain fairly stable in its energy production longer than a more massive object would.
By our standards, the Sun is extraordinarily large. It has a diameter of about 864,000 miles. That's basically 109 times the diameter of the Earth. To put our near space in perspective, if there was a scale model of the solar system with the Sun having a diameter of one foot (about the size of a yellow-whitish basketball), the Earth, in order to remain to scale, would have to be placed 107 feet away and would be one-ninth of an inch across - a mere cinder speck roughly the size of a pinhead. The planet Jupiter would be an inch-and-a-half in diameter (about the size of a golf ball) on this scale and would be 557 feet away from the central basketball-sized Sun. Neptune, the outermost planet (not counting Kuiper belt objects or "dwarf planets" such as Pluto), would be just over 3,220 feet (nearly a kilometer) from the Sun on this scale. On this same scale (with a one-ninth-of-an-inch-wide Earth), the next nearest star to the Sun, Proxima Centauri, would be about the size and color of a tomato and would be a staggering 5,500 miles away. This illustrates the virtual emptiness of space and why other individual stars don't generally exert gravitational influence on the Sun or any of the minor members of the solar system, such as planets and comets.
The Sun is the only significant mass within 25 trillion miles (in actual distance, not to any scale). Because of this, it theoretically holds gravitational sway up to a distance over 1,000 times farther than the orbit of Neptune (this incredible distance is still barely a tenth of the way to Proxima Centauri). The true nature of gravity is not really understood, but a simple model of it has massive objects (like the Earth is to us or the Sun is to the Earth) creating "dents" in space and time, much like a bowling ball would create a depression in the center of a trampoline, causing objects close enough to the bowling ball to roll toward it. This curvature of space actually causes light to follow a bent path when it passes a massive object. Proof of this was first borne out in 1919, when stars known to be "behind" the Sun in an Earthbound observer's line of sight were actually visible to the "sides" of the Sun during a total solar eclipse.
In space, bits of nearby matter tend to coalecse, attracted to each other by gravity like bits of fluff drawn to each other via static electricity. When enough matter (make that a huge amount, in our terms - even gigantic Jupiter isn't nearly massive enough to become a star) coalesces, the pressure created at the center causes a rise in temperature (specifically, increased molecular movement). Light elements, such as Hydrogen (by far the most abdundant element in the universe), tend to exhibit a great deal of movement when under pressure, much like water becomes "agitated" when it begins to boil. It is these high pressures within the cores of stars that results in stellar nucleosynthesis, "fusion" of lighter elements into heavier ones, with an accompanying release of energy, as occurs in a Hydrogen bomb, with the conversion of matter to energy related by Einstein's famous equation E = mc^2. The core of a star like the Sun might be thought of as uncountable numbers of H-bombs exploding all the time. The rate of fusion within stars is actually slow on account of the fact that fusion energy is also absorbed within the star's core and it may take up to millions of years for a single burst of energy to make its way to the star's surface following the initial reaction. But the enormous amount of matter involved ensures a steady source of potential reactions and a stable energy output for a time frame ranging from hundreds of thousands of years (for extremely massive stars) to tens of billions of years (for the lightest stars).
More massive, dense stars exhaust their supply of convertible matter faster than less massive stars do. This is due in part to greater core pressure and a faster rate of nucleosynthesis and in part to matter comprised of heavier elements (a result of fusion) piling on top of the shrinking core, which eventually disrupts the balance achieved when internal nuclear turmoil and collapsing gravitational forces remain in equilibrium. A stable, "healthy" star in the normal state of equilibrium is called a "main sequence" star. The mass, color, surface temperature, energy production (luminosity) and life span of main sequence stars are all related, with the most massive stars being the hottest and most luminous and tending to produce energy in the visible spectrum which tends toward the violet end of the spectrum. These massive stars also have the shortest life spans as main sequence stars. The most common main sequence stars are small, dim and red and have the longest life in the main sequence. The Sun is dwarfed by many of the stars visible to the naked eye (such as Sirius, Vega, Antares, Aldebaran, etc.), but it is actually more massive than most stars. For every star of the Sun's size in the galaxy, there are probably about 30 smaller, dimmer, red stars that are not luminous enough to be visible to the naked eye in the night sky.
A star of the Sun's mass can theoretically be expected to remain on the main sequence for about 8 billion to 10 billion years, so it is thought to be roughly halfway through its life span at the moment. Stellar evolutionists look at stars in what they assume to be different stages of "life" and make conjectures as to how stars are "born," how long they can be expected to remain in normal balance as main sequence stars, and how they will eventually "die." Observing a single star age over the course of recorded history would be equivalent to trying to figure out how humans age by watching one for a few seconds, so the first approach, while more theoretical, is also more practical.
When our Sun begins its "death throes," it is theorized that it will expand (rapidly, in cosomological terms) into a "red giant" (no longer considered a main sequence star) which will likely engulf the Earth and possibly even Mars, then it will shed its outer layers and shrink to a "white dwarf," a smouldering "ember" of a star incapable of further nucleosynthesis (also not on the main sequence). Both red giants and white dwarf stars are well-represented in the spiral arms of the galaxy, so this end is known to be one possible stellar fate. Stars that are significantly more massive than the Sun are rare, but they are still numerous in the enormous Milky Way galaxy. These stars exhaust their "nuclear furnace" much faster than the Sun or the smaller red main sequence stars, and they may have more violent ends, some exploding into spectacular supernovas, the remnants of which form expanding nebulas with rapidly spinning "neutron stars" or even "black holes" at the center. These objects are impossibly dense. An ordinary drinking glass full of neutron star matter would outweigh the entire Earth. A black hole is so dense that even light cannot escape its gravity.
Well, those weren't simple terms, but there isn't exactly a simple explanation available. Now go read the first two sentences again for the simplest explanation possible.