So, I'm a soph in college. I'm no great runner or anything (25:52 8k PR, haven't run track yet) but it's what I love to do. In high school, I was a 15:30 5k guy and 9:24 for 3200m. I didn't do anything but eat, sleep, run, and hang out with friends. I was one of the more popular people at my high school due to my outgoing personailty and because I was just very random and liked to have fun. Even though I had a TON of friends I never had a girlfriend. Sure, there were quite a few girls that liked me, would give me their numbers and stuff, but for some reason I would never call, I just wasn't interested.
Over the past 2 years I have really become an asshole. For unknown reasons I am really rude to women. I like to joke around a lot, but most of the time my joking isn't so funny to women. I'll say something and they will take it completly the wrong way, and even if I apologize, it is usually too late.
Recently I had this volleyball girl that liked me. We hung out a few times but never got serious. I could tell that she wanted to take it further but I just stopped talking to her (mostly b/c the xc season started up and I was gone most weekends). Well, I ruined that relationship now as well.
If someone ask me a question, I tell them exactly what I think, wether it is what they want to hear or not. I catch a lot of shit for this as people call me an asshole, and well I probably am somewhat of an asshole, at least I know that much and can admit it.
I've been thinking of my future lately. It's sad but I don't see myself getting married because of the way I treat women. I want to have kids, so this scares me. When I first came to this school I had soooo many friends, a lot of them girls, but now it seems that most of them don't like me anymore. There are a few girls that I really don't like and I told them straight up, "I don't like you" and well, they told their whole sorority and now every girl in those sorioritites hates me.
I really want to change this. I don't like being such an asshole. I want to have good relationships with women and treat them well, but my sarcastic humor doesn't bode well with them. I really want to change. I don't want to go talk to the university counselor, so I'm asking letsrun HOW CAN I CHANGE.
PS- This IS NOT a troll thread.