I'm going to comment here, and it probably will not even make sense to many people:
Breeding is the sole purpose of all of society's choices. They buy a sporty car to get a better girl to breed. They want to make more money to have a better home to provide a better (more stable) environment for breeding. We have family rituals (birthdays, etc.) to help keep together a supportive breeding environment and uphold/pass on breeding beliefs (get married/breed/spawn (er, have kids I mean).
Doesn't anybody find it strange that most people (99%) bumble through their lives, breed, and die. Breed, and die. Breed, and die. Over and over, yet no one stops and asks, "Why?" Why make more humans? Why spawn? What is the point? -- other than you have an "urge" to. What an ignorant reason!
Listen to the radio. Listen to the subject of 99% of songs. Try and find a song with words that are NOT about breeding. Watch TV. The plot of shows and movies is what? -- you guessed it --> breeding. Guy and girl pair-bonding unit (star and female sex-object) is threatened by environmental/other animals competing for top rank in breeding pecking-order. Male animal overcomes obstacles and at the end the male and female breeding unit are shown together and safe. The story ends. We are left with the warm feeling that breeding will continue, the race will continue, and all is well. That's what we think is a happy ending. Breeding will continue. Family (extended breeding unit) is safe and will "prosper."
Think: If someone told you that when you were born, scientists had implanted you with coding that would dictate every action you made and you would NOT be aware of this motivation that drove your every action -- wouldn't you feel controlled?
Doesn't acting on a motivation you neither understand nor chose bother you?
I do not appreciate suddenly feeling like I want to put part of my body in another organism( another human's) body, or realizing I chose the make/model of my car, my hairstyle, my level of fitness, my career, my clothes, etc., etc., etc., based on an _underlying_ motivation to breed.
Most people are so in denial about their #1 motivation that they try and explain it away ("natural" "love"; "god's plan (what a joke!)" Most people don't like to admit they are puppets on a string, playing out a pathetic breeding play. And for WHAT? So the next generation can repeat the ignorant cycle? Born, breed, die. Born, breed, die. Born, breed, die. Sort of reminds you of, yes -- insects and animals. Our whole lives just to make more of our species so they can make more, etc. How pointless.
Doesn't anyone care what is really going on? No, most are happy to be a slave to their instincts. That's great for marketers though. They can just carrot-'n'-stick the programmed masses. Just hang a picture of sex (or something that is perceived as leading to sex) on a stick, hold it in front of people, and they'll walk till they drop dead. Actually, that's what's happening to everyone anyway -- except they don't realize the stick is taped to their backs with the sex dangling over their heads and out in front of them leading the way. Funny, eh?
I have no desire to breed.
Yes it's so ... boring. Just saturated. Just imagine the things that could be accomplished if most of us didn't spend so much time or effort in pursuit of a relationship.
Be free.