We've been married about 3.5 years...with children.
My wife is a walking contradiction... a bit of a prude...because of religious convictions and a very repressed upbringing...but I think she has hidden fantasies and not about me. She is very involved in her church and thinks its one of her biggest priorities...she's even gotten me involved in bible study etc. there mere utterance of a profanity will get me in the dog house and TV is controlled like crazy.
She is very dominating...makes significantly more money that I do but doesn't make an issue of it.
Although...
1.) We were heading home from a friends wedding
a couple months after we got married and as we were getting on the plane she passed a very good looking co-worker, with his wife, already on the crowded plane and said very publicly..."hey are you into swinging?" she thought she was being funning, I was totally mortified...esp. considering her "Sweet Christian" demeanor
2.) She will wear mostly flannel pjs ands sweats to bed
but very revealing clothes that show major cleavage to work...she's 36ee!
3.) I find her occasionally enjoying "Girls Next Door" and is always watching Access Hollywood and other trashing shows when I'm not looking...when I catch her she says...
oh...I just think these show are so stupid...that's why I watch them...confirming the Bob Thompson theory ..."why do smart people watch bad TV?
4.) We recently had a nice romantic get away planned at a very nice hotel...her parents were going to watch our kids etc. i spent quite a bit of time massaging etc. what i got back in return...just about nothing.
5.) we avg. sex about 1-2 a month. she often complains about not being into it because she's constipated etc.
I still find her very attractive and love her very much.
Not sure she is being 100% honest with me. Any thoughts?