I just started to date this girl and x-mas is comeing up soon and i dont know if i should get her something or not. The other thing is that she has a birthday on the 31 so i dont know what to do. i thought you guys might be able to help me out with sugestions and stuff.
thanks in advance
Key phrase is "just started to date." You have no idea how long this is going to last, so don't spend a lot of cash. Something simple is best at this stage. No jewelry because it's too early. No perfume. Nothing that personal.
And, yes, get her something for her Birthday. Maybe a dinner out to her favorite place or make her a surprise dinner, or a dinner out and make her a cake.
A guy I dated found himself in the same situation-- we had only been dating for 2 weeks when Valentine's Day rolled around. His gift: he got all the stuff together for making chocolate dipped strawberries and picked out a fun movie, and we stayed in and made the strawberries then ate them while watching the movie. It was inexpensive, didn't make me feel freaked out, and made for a really fun night.
I imagine you will not be seeing her over Christmas, as you will both be with your families, so why not send her some flowers with a nice card that you personally penned.
Meaning, go to a flower shop with a sealed card in which you wrote something nice and personal. Hand it to the person and say, "I would like this card to go out with a dozen roses (or whatever) on Christmas Eve."
She will like it, and it won't freak her out.
Then take her out to a nice dinner on the 30th for her birthday, and buy her something small but nice. Maybe a book or a cd. Even something philanthropic like donating to something in her name. Stay away from jewelry or clothes until you know her style. It is too early to buy her a huge gift, you will make her feel awkward.
Don't make plans for the 31st, she might want to go out with her friends for New Year's Eve.
If you play it right on the 30th, she will be talking about you to all her friends the next night, and you will be a huge stud.
English Major wrote:
I imagine you will not be seeing her over Christmas, as you will both be with your families, so why not send her some flowers with a nice card that you personally penned.
Meaning, go to a flower shop with a sealed card in which you wrote something nice and personal. Hand it to the person and say, "I would like this card to go out with a dozen roses (or whatever) on Christmas Eve."
She will like it, and it won't freak her out.
Then take her out to a nice dinner on the 30th for her birthday, and buy her something small but nice. Maybe a book or a cd. Even something philanthropic like donating to something in her name. Stay away from jewelry or clothes until you know her style. It is too early to buy her a huge gift, you will make her feel awkward.
Don't make plans for the 31st, she might want to go out with her friends for New Year's Eve.
If you play it right on the 30th, she will be talking about you to all her friends the next night, and you will be a huge stud.
Solid Solid Answer right there...
If you think roses are a bit too lovey dovey for the first few weeks you're dating, a christmas teddy bear with chocolates and the same card would do nicely too. It's cute and still gets the hole "i like you" message.
Giddy wrote:
still gets the hole "i like you" message.
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