As Carl Sagan said, they laughed at Galileo, but they also laughed at Bozo the Clown. Blanchard, Bailey, and Dreger are a three-ring circus. The Blanchard/Bailey typology is a thin gloss of pseudoscientific credibility applied to old and hateful stereotypes about transgender people, especially transgender women. Nonetheless, they have the right to be challenged based on the facts, not by character assassination and harassment campaigns.
By the way, your own article, by Dreger herself, does not claim that Conway did any of what you say, certainly not posting that hatefully-captioned picture. Read it again, if you ever did. (I doubt, too, that you will be able to produce any sort of evidence that Conway, who had fully transitioned decades before The Man Who Would Be Queen came out, ever identified as an autogynephile.)
As it happens, I agree with Dreger's statement that the person who did do that "was not the sort of person who was good for a scholarly institution nor the sort who was good for transgender rights". It was wrong, without reservation, even if, as Dreger acknowledges, it was meant "to be a parody of Bailey’s alleged treatment of transsexuals in his book".
The Blanchard/Bailey model, and others intent on attributing extreme sexualized motivations to all trans people, simply do not fit their real-life experience. Conway herself shows this: she tried to transition while in her late teens at MIT, getting as far as hormones on her own, which was extraordinary for the 1950s. She's been in a relationship with one man for the past 30 or so years, and married for more than 20. Young transitioner, heterosexual after transition. "Homosexual transsexual", right? Safe to patronize, but grant no real status? Nope, she had a very successful career as a microchip engineer, before and after transition, and then as a professor of that subject, and has "stereotypically male" hobbies like whitewater canoeing and motocross. (Will you run from this, Ragged?) Must be one of those "autogynephiles"!
She's hardly the only one. I'm hard-pressed to think of a trans person I know who fits Bailey's stereotypes, and I've known a fair few. Yet Bailey and others on his side repeatedly try to dismiss everyone whose life is a counterexample by claiming that they must be lying about their experience. That's not science. It's a preconceived notion preserved by shutting out reality.