We matched on tinder. Talked a good bit. Got her number and asked for a date. She agreed but said I should pay for her sitter. I have no kids and have been out of the dating game for a while. Is this a thing? I pushed back to her and she said it was common for her dates to do that. I don’t feel comfortable doing that and I think it’s a bit much
Sounds like a scam. My friend once sent a girl 30 bucks so she could buy them some drugs for their date and you can guess how that turned out
I have no idea whether it’s a thing, but this potential match is dead on arrival if you don’t. Act lack a man that will care about her kid if you want to get her interest. Otherwise only date women without kids.
As I think about it, she might be using paying for a sitter as a filter.
This has got to be one of the most pathetic things I have ever read
We matched on tinder. Talked a good bit. Got her number and asked for a date. She agreed but said I should pay for her sitter. I have no kids and have been out of the dating game for a while. Is this a thing? I pushed back to her and she said it was common for her dates to do that. I don’t feel comfortable doing that and I think it’s a bit much
If true, why would you send $ to a complete stranger? You've never met her IRL.
Ask her for some $ because you want to buy a new shirt to look good for the date and see how she responds.
Ive seen this kinda crap on tinder, unfortunate but real.
Instant sh1t test issued by homegirl. If you are a HVM run for the hills. If you are a betacucklord this might be your gal.
What in the world does your second sentence mean? I'm a native English speaker, know a lot of Spanish, some Russian, and have no idea what you've said.
Ive seen this kinda crap on tinder, unfortunate but real.
Instant sh1t test issued by homegirl. If you are a HVM run for the hills. If you are a betacucklord this might be your gal.
What in the world does your second sentence mean? I'm a native English speaker, know a lot of Spanish, some Russian, and have no idea what you've said.
We matched on tinder. Talked a good bit. Got her number and asked for a date. She agreed but said I should pay for her sitter. I have no kids and have been out of the dating game for a while. Is this a thing? I pushed back to her and she said it was common for her dates to do that. I don’t feel comfortable doing that and I think it’s a bit much
Sounds like a scam. My friend once sent a girl 30 bucks so she could buy them some drugs for their date and you can guess how that turned out
I would be willing to bet your friend sent a guy 30 bucks🤣 Amazing how many idiots there are out there....
Don’t date poor women. There are millions of single lawyers, doctors, bankers, and other professionals who are probably more attractive and have less baggage than this impecunious single mom and couldn’t care less about who’s paying for what - go out with them. Anyone who cares about reimbursement of some pittance for a babysitter is not worth any romantic association.
Don't you think she is also thinking....don't date poor men?
Yeah my guess is that the kid stays home with dad, she gets a free night out as well as a cash payment that she doesn't really intend to spend on a babysitter. She should also ask for Uber money there and back and have her sidepiece drop her off.
we expect a full blow by blow trip report or scam report.
Betting $69 the date ends early and she goes back out again to fk a different guy. The babysitter is really her cousin/sister so essentially your also paying for the 2nd date too.
Although single moms being easy is a cliché for a reason. Blow her mind with fun and she might return the favor. dfk, bbbj, qv
Babysitters are not cheap. Lets say a babysitter for a 3 hour date comes out to $100.00
She is apparently a single mom. That's $100 out of her monthly budget. I'm not saying she'll starve if she springs for a babysitter, but it is $100 that could otherwise go to her kids college fund.
A lot of dudes avoid single moms. She may have been burnt by guys who were just looking to hook up. Is it a little questionable? Sure, but I also think it is bold and somewhat compelling.
I haven't done the online dating thing in about 8 years, but I remember most women fell into two buckets...the ones that wanted to meet up immediately, and the ones that would string you along and never actually meet up.
If you've enjoyed chatting with her and think she may be a good match, pay for the sitter. I'm sure you've spent $100 on sillier things in your life.