fan of yam boy wrote:
The fact that you are talking about her means that she is far from being in a downward spiral...
I see this argument so much and I don't think people realize that we'll talk about a drugged out homeless guy who is spiraling down the center of an alley. Does talking about him mean anything he's spiraling upward in life? People will watch a court case about a murderer and talk about it. Does that mean the person is doing well?