Is it normal for people to have a strong need to "sort out the pecking order" at work? What I mean is, obviously there is at least somewhat of a hierarchy at work, but within that hierarchy, different people are "dominant" over others, even if nothing says that on paper, just because Person A is smarter, older, or more domineering than Person B.
Something I've run into time and time again when I start somewhere new is that at least one person will start trying very hard to bully me and harass me, like they're testing me and trying to assert dominance over me. I had no idea what was going on when I was younger and no idea how to respond. Now I cut that crap off at the cord very quickly, which always seems to greatly upset the person I just metaphorically walloped. It always strikes me as very odd though because I'm never the initiator, I never start drama with others at work, and I have no desire to "assert my dominance" over others or anything like that. I've worked with people who were "better" than me and people who were not as good as me, and in neither case do I really think that much of it. It definitely doesn't bother me to work with someone who is better at our job than I am. But a lot of people seem to go kind of crazy when this happens.
Is this sort of thing common? It seems like a lot of people have a compelled need to find out how they size up against any newcomer at work, and they will deliberately start conflict with that person until they figure out where they stand, even if it means losing. Anyone else notice this?