So, what did you married guys do for your wives on Valentine's Day? This is your chance to prove you are worthy of the "affection" you claim to deserve. What did you do for your wife and were you rewarded, or was the gesture reciprocated, in any way?
"nuptial"
Thank you. Nuptial is a tricky word.
My bad.
I was up from 12pm to 8am making here a 2 CD compilation of our wedding music and her favorite songs. I made two nice looking cd cases with pictures from our wedding as the background and a track listing on the back. The whole thing was way too much work.
But the look on her face made it all worth it.
And she let me sleep until 2 in the afternoon.
You slept until 2 in the afternoon on a Wednesday? Instead of putting in 8 hours on some lame CD, try getting a job! Want to please your wife and spice up life in the bedroom? Bring home a steady paycheck, you stinking bum! Unless, of course, you're in a lesbian marriage, and your wife is actually the "husband". In that case, disregard the previous comment.
Put up or shut up.
Roses, Dinner and a nice card that played music.
It worked for me gentlemen, and I cannot wait until next Valentine's Day!!!!
Flowers, dinner, sweet talk, left work early = nothing!
Shut - Off wrote:
Flowers, dinner, sweet talk, left work early = nothing!
Did you even try?
What was the excuse?
I cooked her shrimp diavolo linguini with affagato for desert. Took her to a romantic valentine's day concert with by a grammy award winning song writer. We got in an argument over politics in the car on the way home and she said she was too worked up to have sex and would need a few hours to get in the mood again. Well, that would have been 1:00am,so she went back to her place and I went to the gym and ran off the steam.
She told me that around 10:30 as I was mounting her. She is kind of a freak. You missed it I guess.
You guys have wives' under 30? or do you not have children? I married a 40 year old (her second time, my first). Someone should have told me the rules. I think we had sex for about 10 mins. or so before she told me she was too tired...think that was sometime last July. Obviously she was too busy as we are both school teachers and HAVE THE ENTIRE DAMN SUMMER OFF. Thank goodness I love what I do otherwise I would have cut it off by now.
Well lets see what I did for Valentine's day..
7:00AM - Woke up and made her pancakes for breakfast.
8:00AM - While she was in class I went to get some nice flowers and whatnot.
12:50PM - Picked her up from the campus and we went for lunch.
1:50Pm - Went to the mall where I pretty much let her go wild and get anything and everything she wanted.
4:30PM - Went for supper at a very nice restaurant
6:30PM - Went to rent some movies and go back to her place.
7:00PM - Watched some movies.
9:00PM - Went and put a couple bags of rose petals on her bed. Went back downstairs to finish the movie.
9:30PM - She was definately turned on by the rose petals.
11:00PM - She was completely satisfied.
11:30PM - Good night.
Did I do a good job, Letsrun Women?
A little advice:
Roses with a nice message on the card. That's it.
If you treat your woman right the other 364 days of the year, then you get it whenever you want it. Going over the top doesn't make her feel more loved, it just lets her know she is in control. You either have the control or she does. If you want to keep from getting shut off, you've got to be the one in control, right?
It helps if you make sure she has at least 2x as many orgasms as you do. I have a problem getting time off from my wife. Sometimes reading a book would be cool.
guy above me is a homo... awful work mate you wasted alot of time... 1 trip to CVS pick up the three C's and you are on your way to a very happy woman, and a very happy best friend :-D
I do treat her awesome all of the time: roses at least once every two weeks, surprising her at work, you know the drill.
Maybe if you went all out once in awhile you would be getting some from your girlfriend/wife like I am.
And I do make sure she is satisfied, EVERY time.
Learn to treat her nice douchebag
Roses every 2 weeks is too much (I guess I don't know the drill). At some point you can't surprise her any more. What would be surprising? Roses every week?
If your gf/wife is satisfied every time (mine is) then you don't need to buy all that crap to keep her happy. Try to stop with the flowers and see if she is still happy/satisfied. Perhaps you're doing everything right and the roses are a waste of money.
Treating my wife nice consists of listening to her when she talks, supporting her when she needs my help, encouraging her to have self-confidence, and making sure that she feels beautiful.
I mentioned control earlier. I don't control my wife but I do control myself. It is tempting to take the easy way out and give up control of yourself to your wife/gf in hopes of having a peaceful existence. You're better off to fight once in a while and maintain control of yourself. Otherwise your relationship is doomed. It just seems like with all the flowers you are trying to buy peace, love, and happiness. Maybe that's a bad assumption on my part. If not, then my advice is stop it before you become an unhappy slave.
What are the threee Cs?
maybe i'md dumb wrote:
What are the threee Cs?
cash
credit cards
checks