I figure this place has enough weirdos that someone here might be able to relate.
For an example of what I'm talking about, let's say it comes up in conversation that a group of my friends are going out to dinner tonight (well not tonight specifically, but some night where there isn't a lockdown in effect). The dinner plans sound like fun and I decide that I want to join and go to dinner with them.
Now if I was a normal person, I'd just speak up and voice my interest and ask if I could join. But what I'll do instead is to just stand there without saying a word hoping that someone will take it upon themselves to reach out and invite me. I'll literally just stand there thinking "man, I hope someone notices that I haven't been included in the dinner plans and thinks to extend an invitation to me." Nine times out of ten I obviously don't get invited (presumably because everyone assumes that I'd just say "mind if I join" if that's what I wanted to do). I'll then be disappointed to not be included and spend the evening alone feeling rejected. This same scenario repeats with just about every imaginable type of social activity.
At first I attributed this behavior to just being shy and socially awkward and being reluctant to put myself out there, but the more I think about it, the more I realize that there is something more to it: I actually on some level want to feel rejected. There's some weird part of my subconscious that seems to need to feel hurt, let down, and victimized, so I end up semi-intentionally creating these situations where I can justify feeling this way. On an intellectual level, I know that my friends would include me in their plans if they knew I wanted to come, but part of me just wants to stew over not getting invited, so I act in a way that makes this happen.
So...WTF is wrong with me?