Really Weird Situation w/ College Girl..Need Help

My friend, it's time to let it go and move on. You are suffering from infatuation. This is just a chemical state of the brain, and will go away in time.

Of course she is not interested in you. Reverse the situation; if it were she who had been trying to text you, would you have dragged it out and coyly waited to reply, or never replied?

She's messing with your head. Take solace by imagining her 30 years in the future, when she is a big old whale with all kinds of physical and mental ailments, driving some poor sap of a husband insane with her emotional manipulation. Be glad you avoided that.

Your best bet is to keep your eyes open for someone new.

I've noticed women have more followers/likes on social media than guys on average--the FB algorithm boosts those whose posts gets likes the fastest, so if a female is posting a topic, it will usually get more likes from her friends in a faster amount of time, so FB's algorithm will push that post to the top of the News Feed and create a snowball effect.

Guys aren't on as much so when they post their posts might not always rise as fast and thereby get less likes.

It's also dependent on friend volume. Someone with 300 friends will get less likes than someone with 1200 friends even if the 300-friender has great content, etc. and gets like--the 1200-friender will have more simply due to sheer volume.

Texting for hours and hours us where it went wrong.

Bump. Still haven't heard from her. Texted her on Monday and she hasn't responded. That was my text following up to her non response basically.

I definitely won't text her for a third time..but does anyone know WTF happened? Or what should I do to make her re-gain interest? Really need help.

Talk with other women you might be interested in to get to know them better, and forget about her.

UPDATE:

I ran into her friend today. It was really weird we just started talking and she told me that the girl I was talking about in this post had something happen with her EX the day after we talked.

She said she doesn't know what to do and is kind of upset because she was into me and doesn't know how to tell me what happened.

I reached out twice with no response though, so I don't want to reach out for a THIRD time and be desperate. But it sounds like from her friend she wants to talk, but why hasn't she texted me back?

Should I wait it out or should I give it some time and then text one last time?

TAA wrote:

Don't text again. Ball is in her court. If you really want to try again ask her to hang out. Be very clear. Don't contact again after that if she declines or ignores you.

This. A lot of women will purposely not respond as a test to give you. She wants to see if you're desperate or needy. Women always give men these little "tests." A needy man would panic and send more texts but this would turn her off. A more desirable man for her would not text again or wait at least like a week before texting again if no response. She doesnt want to feel as if she is doing you a favor by going out with you. She wants to feel the opposite way, you're doing her a favor by going on a date with her....BUT I will add that she also may not be interested or is a bit hesitant/on the fence if she does not respond. Women have their guard up all the time too. Just dont come across as desperate or needy.

Which is it? You have never seen her in person yet, or she gave you her number?

if she was really into you from her texts then she wouldn't have ghosted you.

LRC ladies, do this guy(OP) a favor and go out with him. LonestarXC, amkelly,Txrgrl...whoever. I will front you 20 bucks for a burger, fries and a milkshake.

you have obviously never been laid.

Some people don't know what they're looking for and can be avoidant types. I've done that to women for those reasons....I just change my mind. Sorry. I've also had something similar done to me by someone who I had a crush on for years whose name people here would recognize. Distance runners are really weird.

Though your situation is different because you've never even gone on a date. Texting isn't worth much.

RunningLetsRun wrote:

She said she doesn't know what to do and is kind of upset because she was into me and doesn't know how to tell me what happened.

That's her problem, not yours.

Talk with other women you might be interested in to get to know them better, and forget about her.

If she contacts you in the meantime, fine. If she doesn't, that's fine too.

Obvious Answer wrote:

Time for a dick pic

Works every time

honestly the only answers one might give ya here have been given: grow some nuts, stop being a wuss, man up and ask her out irl or call her.

another piece of advice i can give ya is honestly just to be the same way she is. as someone here has probably already stated, she is texting a massive, gargantuan, almost impressively large amount of guys at once. do the same yourself. get out into the real world. lastly, stop bit ching on a running site. try making some friends to bit ch to instead.

ps i can assure you they'll say the same thing, only they are going to clown you 100% more.

Do you normally ask the LRC for advice on women? Go for a run how's that?