annoyed girlfriend wrote:
"Guy in late 20s" sounds like the type of guy I would date. My boyfriend in general definitely falls under "nice guy." The reason I don't think this one event is immediate grounds for break up is because he has always made past commitments and is extremely respectful in general. But this is absolutely something to address, to not set a precedent.
what precedent? Him having fun with a friend on his friends birthday?
there's probably a 99% chance he dreads these all day hangouts with your parents and he's sucked it up so far because he likes you. You are going to punish him for missing ONE? It's only been a year and it sounds like this is fairly common expectation that you put on him?
You and your mom sound really pushy. You told her he was sick and her solution was that he come over anyway and she'd solve it with some soup? lol . Any reasonable person would get the hint and let a person rest.
If you keep this up you won't have to worry about breaking up with him, he will be gone.
And you next guy will disappoint you too..........eventually. Maybe leave the toilet seat up once after YEARS of doing it right.
I wouldn't worry too much about conveying your dissapointment.....chances are you are pretty good at it. Maybe even as good as you are at trolling.
Just curious, how many of these dinners has he already had with your family. 3 in the first year would seem excessive.