sub sub elite local hobby jogger wrote:
Watcher Jones wrote:
At not one point do you mention her personality, ambitions, hopes, aspirations, character in any slight way whatsoever. You only refer to her as in servicing your needs and making you feel good about yourself. You don't sound terribly appealing. What have you got to offer a girl like her with her whole future ahead of her, including not being tied to a socially awkward runner at a different college?
I guess that I should not be surprised, but I am somewhat surprised that there are not more replies like this.
Son, don't idealize women like this. They are people with many flaws, like the rest of us. No woman is perfect and there is more to her than the superficial characteristics and how she makes you feel. Maybe you should care about what she wants a little bit.
And I should clarify, care about what the next one wants, not your "perfect" girl. Leave her alone, the window is closed.