? For long time married couples. How many dates before xxx?

4.

I still didn’t have that as a rule though. I’d like to think that if we had sex on the 1st date we still would’ve gotten married.

old fashioned wrote:

F on the first date wrote:

Any truth to the myth about not marrying anyone who sexes on the first date?

Asking for a friend.

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.

Now that's the ticket...bang & alter!?

Now That's Telling It Like It Is wrote:

Since You Asked... wrote:

Some are fun in bed screaming and clenching and others are pillow princesses that just lay there. You would never know having dinner and walking in the park with them.

Yeah...and you wouldn't want to marry a pillow princess - that could get real boring.

haha, I'm not embarrassed to say this because im glad im over this psycho but my ex-gf was not only a pillow princess but she was also fat and a long time smoker so while she was layin there pretendin she's a princess u could hear her strugglin to breath and she wasn't even doin anything.. boy am i glad i didnt have a kid with that worthless biatch.

The real question is how long b4 the backdoor is offered/taken?

Chemistry wrote:

If you really like eachother, then do it whenever. Probably at least the 3rd date and at most the 5th date though. If the guy is just looking to get laid and not get married, it's the woman's job to see through the BS. But you can't know if you want to marry someone until you've had sex IMO.

yeah, everything is the woman's job, let's be real

WetMoose wrote:

Now That's Telling It Like It Is wrote:

Yeah...and you wouldn't want to marry a pillow princess - that could get real boring.

haha, I'm not embarrassed to say this because im glad im over this psycho but my ex-gf was not only a pillow princess but she was also fat and a long time smoker so while she was layin there pretendin she's a princess u could hear her strugglin to breath and she wasn't even doin anything.. boy am i glad i didnt have a kid with that worthless biatch.

Hi Nathan Larson. Keep spreading your hate and vitriol on suiped.org and incelocalypse.today

4th date for me. Got married at 30, been happily married for 10 years.

What's up with this? wrote:

Mikeh33 wrote:

I agree you should not marry any woman who demands the sex on the first date. Or the second. It’s a sign of poor character. Wait until marriage, you won’t regret it.

Bogus! You just don't buy a new car without test driving it first - no different either with marriage & sex.

This is illogical. I am not sure what sexual chemistry even is. If you love one another, are committed to each other, and determined to please one another, you’ll be “sexually compatible.” No need to “kick the tires” to use the crude metaphor. Waiting until marriage is good.

Mikeh33 wrote:

What's up with this? wrote:

Bogus! You just don't buy a new car without test driving it first - no different either with marriage & sex.

This is illogical. I am not sure what sexual chemistry even is. If you love one another, are committed to each other, and determined to please one another, you’ll be “sexually compatible.” No need to “kick the tires” to use the crude metaphor. Waiting until marriage is good.

If you wait until marriage and get stuck with a lemon...then what? ?

It took me until the third date. I was her third partner, she was my sixth partner.

Been married for 3 years now, 1 toddler. It's love baby.

MMA/UFC wrote:

It took me until the third date. I was her third partner, she was my sixth partner

Man...you guys score early! I've had 16 dates with a gal and nothing...nada. She reads the Bible a lot...I wonder if that has something to do with it?

old fashioned wrote:

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.

I NEVER slept on a first date (usually was anywhere from fifth date to a month dating.)

My last boyfriend, we slept together the first night (technically not all the way but you get the message), completely throwing my rules out the window.

Been together five years, crazy in love and happy together.

When it’s right, it’s right.

No wonder the divorce rate in the United States is so appallingly high. You people are deeply disturbing if you think three or four dates is enough "get to know you time" to form any kind of relarionship which is remotely close to approaching intimacy.

You people should be ashamed of yourselves for being yet another reason this country has willingly flushed itself down the toilet.

Alex FreeMarket wrote:

No wonder the divorce rate in the United States is so appallingly high. You people are deeply disturbing if you think three or four dates is enough "get to know you time" to form any kind of relarionship which is remotely close to approaching intimacy.

You people should be ashamed of yourselves for being yet another reason this country has willingly flushed itself down the toilet.

Whatever bro. This isn't the 50's anymore. Women are not making their husbands lunch or staying at home to cook. They are running companies and not coddling men. They are much more independent these days and casual sex is more prevalent then ever. Women I know typically have 3 or 4 guys they no they can get with on any given night and you should look up hypergamy to get an idea of what is really going on out there.

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.[/quote]

My first wife we waited a year. Sex sucked and were divorced after 7 years.

Second wife we did it on the first date. Sex life is top notch. Been married 9 years and we are very happy. I’d never do anything to loose her.

Alex FreeMarket wrote:

No wonder the divorce rate in the United States is so appallingly high. You people are deeply disturbing if you think three or four dates is enough "get to know you time" to form any kind of relarionship which is remotely close to approaching intimacy.

You people should be ashamed of yourselves for being yet another reason this country has willingly flushed itself down the toilet.

I wouldn't worry too much about it...Trump will clean up this mess and make America great again. ?

It was probably 3 years into our dating before my now-wife and I watched XXX. She is not the biggest Vin Diesel fan.

For us, second date. Probably would have been first date, except that one was a brief meeting at a coffee shop during each of our work days. As others have said, when it's love, you know it. We both knew it the first time we met. We are happy and having a great time.

That's why marriage is meaningless. Casual sex rules - the more...the merrier!