? For long time married couples. How many dates before xxx?

What kind of stupid myth is that?

I agree you should not marry any woman who demands the sex on the first date. Or the second. It’s a sign of poor character. Wait until marriage, you won’t regret it.

Third date. If the girl gives it up before then it means she’s been around. If she makes you wait any longer, she has weird hangups about sex.

Real talk.

If you really like eachother, then do it whenever. Probably at least the 3rd date and at most the 5th date though. If the guy is just looking to get laid and not get married, it's the woman's job to see through the BS. But you can't know if you want to marry someone until you've had sex IMO.

bigtime wrote:

What kind of stupid myth is that?

The old ways say the kind of woman worth marrying will make you wait for xxx. My friend is curious if there is any truth to this. Any married or divorced folks care to share their experiences?

How old is your friend?

I believe it's not about the # of dates, but the connection you two make.

Mine was on the second one. But then I did something and got dumped.

Has anyone ever dated someone with BPD?

Chemistry wrote:

If you really like eachother, then do it whenever. Probably at least the 3rd date and at most the 5th date though. If the guy is just looking to get laid and not get married, it's the woman's job to see through the BS. But you can't know if you want to marry someone until you've had sex IMO.

lol what kind of "chemistry" are you talkin about? oh you like gettin pissed on and i like gettin strangled while i get butt fuked with a strapon.. gee in that case both of you are messed up and deserve eachother anyway.. but for more normal people maybe a little foreplay and then its as simple as puttin your penis in and movin in and out. it doesn't take doin that to find out you have chemistry, you find out chemistry by basically everything else, if you have chemistry (and one isnt completely wacked in the head sexually) and care for each other then the sex will correlate.

Any person asking that question has already raced to marriage and they have barely dated the person. Yuuuge Red Flag.

Just date. Enjoy each other's company. Get a connection, or try. If not, then your personalities don't fit. It's no one's fault. Move on.

The man or woman may be too big/small in the land down under for it to be enjoyable.

Since You Asked... wrote:

The man or woman may be too big/small in the land down under for it to be enjoyable.

well either you have a micropenis or bad at foreplay, or they had a lot of natural births or took a lot of penises.. all these things can be discussed or determined beforehand besides maybe the foreplay part but that can be improved like any skill.

Some are fun in bed screaming and clenching and others are pillow princesses that just lay there. You would never know having dinner and walking in the park with them.

Since You Asked... wrote:

Some are fun in bed screaming and clenching and others are pillow princesses that just lay there. You would never know having dinner and walking in the park with them.

u have a bit of a point i admit, my ex-gf is one of these "pillow princesses" and it makes sex life extremely bland and even bitter at times.. but id be willing to overlook that if we had chemistry in the other areas which we dont.

Reddit Red Pill'd wrote:

How old is your friend?

I know it's uncanny, but we were born on the same day, yesterday.

Most women are like this:

1. First date- friendly goodbye kiss on the cheek with some sexual tense in the air.

2. Second date- french kissing.

3. Third date- heavy smooching, probably in the car. Clothes still on.

4. Fourth date- naked in bed some partial sex no penetration or full sex

5. Fifth date- If previous date didn’t include penetration, this one will.

6. Sixth date- where do we go from here- back door, and the rest of unorthodox nasty things. ( kidding)

I had a woman that from the third date and on just wanted to sleep in my bed next to me with clothes on but refused to do anything sexual. It went on like this for a few more meetings and she wouldn’t even let me touch her unnaked ass. Obviously she had some issues, and she wasn’t that nice either, so we went our separate ways.

I don’t think I would even want sex on the first date- too chippy

Married for 2nd time. In both, had sex on 2nd date. Going on 11 years now. Had a few other long relationships &in all had sex on 2nd date & dated over 8 months. I see it as if people find strong attraction waiting serves no special need & if sex happens naturally early in relationship then it bonds a couple. I’ve tried to wait on a few women I really liked & my not just going with the mood resulted in quick ends to things. Quit overthinking it & let the fucking happen. As you get older women don’t want it as much past 40 so don’t waste fucking time!

F on the first date wrote:

Any truth to the myth about not marrying anyone who sexes on the first date?

Asking for a friend.

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.

old fashioned wrote:

F on the first date wrote:

Any truth to the myth about not marrying anyone who sexes on the first date?

Asking for a friend.

My wife and I had sex on our first date. We've been married for two decades.

but when you are not around she is having sex with big muscular bodybuilders with waxed chests.

I am an anonymous source, do not ask me how I have obtained this information.

Mikeh33 wrote:

I agree you should not marry any woman who demands the sex on the first date. Or the second. It’s a sign of poor character. Wait until marriage, you won’t regret it.

Bogus! You just don't buy a new car without test driving it first - no different either with marriage & sex.